I don't believe in hooking up. The only way that ever seemed to work for me is to randomly meet people I think are nice. Getting into a community with similar-minded people of course helps that, but I am here for enlightment, nothing else ;)
Why must your main goal in life to be to meet someone to have sex with? You actively search for it, solely. Isn't it more interesting to actually get to know a person for real?
Well, that's how I see it. I don't think with my genes, I think with my brain. I find it far more interesting to find someone who can challenge me intellectually and prove their knowledge in several areas than having sex.