Roo, maybe she just blocked you from seeing her page. I heard there were special privileges associated with being the first person to hit 10,000. Hope you've learned to duck, as it won't be long before she gets her Laser Eyes (TM) installed.
Another thing I was curious about is the "Leave Atheist Nexus" button found on the My Page Settings.
The answer may require a site administrator - How many people have left?