You did say "'til death do us part." And God intends for you to mean it. If you were a better wife, he wouldn't need to masturbate or physically assault you. Take your discipline like a good submissive wife. >.X
I always found the Mormon hierarchy of heavens to be confusing. My sister and I have concluded that it works much the same way as a credit card company. You can not kill everyone in sight, and that's enough to get you your basic card. Then if you're loyal to the company and you contribute enough, you get the gold card. Then, if you pay the company 10% of your earnings, marry a company member, bear his seed, etc... then you get the PLATINUM CARD (i.e. celestial kingdom, the highest). We should all want a platinum card after all, right?