Being a part of a religious society I often find myself socially restricted just because of being an athiest. Unable to enjoy social activities as much as other arround me do. Dou you feel anything of this sort?

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I don't have that much of a problem, here in Las Vegas everyday can be a great social time, the only time that may be a problem is at work. I am very vocal about my opinion if I hear someone talking religion at work or if I am asked about it, especially one of my bosses.
I worked for a company that is owned by two brothers, one of the brothers which is the older of the two, is like myself, the other one that is 20 years our younger is really religious and has filled his mind with all the conspiracy theories, and bore me to death. I shocked him one day when he had asked me if I believed that the bible was the word of god, I simply said no, and that it should be used as toilet paper if we ran out, only crumbled up a bit to smooth some of the ruff edges, that is was I believe it was should be used for. Fortunately he couldn't fire me. lol, because his older brother felt the same way. I have a very good social life. Kind of funny though because after that most of the other employee's never talked to me much about religion or politics. Strange bed fellows they are at that.
I'm a very social guy, but I know what yer talking about. In my town, I have to socialize around the pervasive religiousity. Otherwise, I'd either be alone or in constant conflict!
I was never overly social to begin with, but lately I've been making a point to go out and socialize with people. Specifically, with the local atheist, skeptical and science meetups. In that way, my being an atheist has actually helped me socialize more, giving me the impetus to get off my duff and be social. :)
I am lucky that several members of my family are atheist and even my brother turned atheist a little after I did. Lately I've met some friends who are mostly non-religious. Among other groups of friends, paganism is very trendy and I think people don't even realize they're imposing this on people. It doesn't occur to them that they could be dogmatic, b/c they're different than Christianity, and therefore good, and imposing it on people must be good. As an ex-pagan I'm probably the only one who gets annoyed.
I feel you, Prog Rock Girl. Except I identified as an occultist rather than a pagan for most of my time dealing with such people and the pagans weren't very fond of me. :D
Oh yes. "We only do white magick, and shun people who do even have the appearance of doing anything else." As if it matters!
Actually I'm more socially active now than I ever was before becoming an anti-theist. I just like most nons more than most believers.
You got three kinds of restrictions working against your social interactions.
"Isolation", Damn it, sometimes I say it too. Its good. Its better to be at places like A'N or read a book than being with ediots. But I am unable to find a balance between "good isolation" and "value of social interactions". What you make of it?
I´m not sure if this would work for you but it works for me, so I´ll tell anyway. Six years ago I became involved in bookcrossing, and after some time on their forums I decided to go to bookcrossmeetings. I found lots of interesting books and even better, lots of interesting people, some of which became good friends. The bookcrossers I met have a spirit of sharing and giving that is really infectious and helps a lot. Try what it does for you.
your religion may lead to inner loneliness...
when the prayers don't work.

so, atheist, yeah
about as socially aware as they come
I lived in a horrible, tiny town in northern Maine and I fled to a small leftist-minded liberal arts college in Massachusetts. Being an atheist here makes you... just like everyone else.

I remember in a high school class someone asked the class who was an atheist. I assumed, from the conversations I had had with my classmates, that there would be a few hands. I was one of, like, 25.

It's about location.
Not at all! The sect of my parents caused me to grow up in social loneliness, because they would not allow me to mix with normal people. When I was 18 I went my own way and felt quite lonely because I was ostracized by my family and had to build a social network from scratch, but all was well in time. But I´m lucky to live in a place where all sorts of beliefs and non-beliefs mix.




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