Daniel, as always, your gentle manner, kind words, and clear descriptions empower one to feel less helpless while thinking of positive ways to face life's challenges. You were there for me and you continue to be present with the ones in turmoil.
Thank you for being who you are.
Aw-ww, Bert, if you disagreed would you have posted it?
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Because people use language to either reveal or conceal, when I see prose like that, I sometimes replace second person or plural pronouns (you, your) with first person singular pronouns (I, my). Kornfield’s passage would read
My breath, my heartbeats, my thoughts all arise as pulsing waves. I see... et cetera.
Many people do physical exercise. Not so many people do emotional exercise. Or maybe I’m a narcissist.
OK, Tom, let's do it:
"My breath, my heartbeat, my thoughts all arise as pulsing waves. I see that there is nothing solid, nothing static, nothing steady that goes from one year to the next, one month to the next, one moment to the next. The mind-body is a flux of constant creation and dissolution. There is no possibility of holding on, although sometimes I try very hard to do so. When I experience this process of change in a very immediate and intimate way, I realize that who I am is the ever-changing waves, and the fear of death begins to dissolve because I see that there never has been anything solid or permanent. I no longer consider death some kind of failure, apart from the natural order of things. I can be more at peace."
~Jack Kornfield, modified
My agreement plus $5.41 will buy you a latte at my favorite coffee shop.
I took a seminar with Jack Kornfield. His ideas offer worthy action plans.