I have a headache from all this convoluted logic. Mr. Daly is talking out of both sides of his mouth and doesn't see his contradiction. On one hand, he supports the idea that gays are excluded from "God's design" but then tries to include them in Christian love. As if you say, "You are deviant but we love you despite your evil ways."
The Groucho Marx quote about not wanting to be in a club that would have him as a member seems to fit in here somewheres but my comic ability is tainted by my headache.