According to my count there are 57 women and 143 men here, which means that if every gurl find a guy there would still be 86 men who would remain single!

Now let's assume that the % of gay men here is roughly equal to the population at large around 10% last time I checked...which means that 10% of 143 is 14.3 gay men...which might bring our figures down for other men down to 71.7...and we still have not factored the amount of lesbian athesits here....5.7...which is likely higher for I will say a modest increase of 15% lesbians here.....I should actually raise the bar on the gay men here too, I would think...but anyway...these are not exact figures.....:)

So that brings us to 48 women seeking men here and about 129 men seeking women....which means that the gap is 81 men are out of luck...and that's of course if everyone here was compatable with each other which of course....would not be the case since we know that the div. rate in this country is 50%! Well that leaves us with only 24 women here who would actually stay in their relationship and that would mean that only 24 men would still have a relationship and the rest .... which isn't saying too much...and....*starts to cry...

But seriously why are there always a majority of men on these atheists sites? I mean are we going to have to fight over each women like in Saudi Abria? Or will there be like for every atheist women three atheist men by her side? Some sort of atheist women's polygamy? ....

I mean this must be great for the women atheists right? You have more too choose from? If one atheist man does not suite your fancy well you can always find a large pool to choose from again....I would suspect that it is even more rational for a women to be an atheist than a man! Unless you are a gay man....?

Which brings me to my point is it rational to be an atheist male if your goal is a relationship with a female? hmm...

Does not believing in something that does not exist really matter considering how it can effect one's dating and relationship life? If so should we settle down with our pet dog and live in isolation for the rest of our lives? And why am I an atheist again? God must of cursed me. Is honesty really that important folks? What social good does it really bring? Maybe I could just brainwash myself into belief again...motivation is sure there...oh but the gods of reason say no!

This of course brings up another valid question: If atheist men outnumber atheist women and women are often the ones teaching the next generation of human babies....and they are all religious...what kind of world is this going to look like: Idiocracy.

And of course there is the elephant in the room: Why would there be more male atheists than female atheists? Is the stereotype all know what it is....women are more prone to feeling and emotion thus they are more prone to religion and are themselves emotional but mostly rational compared to women...hence logic suggests that is why there are so few women atheists.

Does a feminist want to counter the data in some way? I'd hate for that to be the truth.....if it were I suppose marrying my dog would be my next goal....because if that is true, and all women are irrational on some other level atheist women would be just as irrational as other faith based women, therefore I'm not sure what the difference is?

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Yes, you're a bad sci-fi geek. Firefly is fun.
Personally I also strongly recommend Babylon 5, though.
I agree, Babylon 5 was better than Firefly. But then I only watched Firefly two or three times.
*hearts* Firefly = best show EVER. I'm laughing at your whole thread choosing where to comment, and this is what got me. (major Joss fan)
tis tis true...
I've always figured it's because women are more pragmatic as a whole, and if religion isn't bothering them, and in fact provides community and support, they're less likely to apostatize.
What about interfaith (or in our case, faith-on-lack-thereof) dating? I've known atheists who have had lengthy and fruitful relationships with moderate christians and jews (one of whom is marrying just such a girl come this spring). I realize that this isn't the sort of love life many of us want, but I don't think we should rule it out entirely. As for the church-going problem, why not attend a UU parish? Just some things to consider...
I agree with you Mark and that will likely be what I will do. I currently attend the UU.
It is possible that there is nothing wrong with the Atheist men here but they merely may not be ready to jump into a relationship. Just a thought.
All I am saying is that there may be more reasons why Atheist men have not contacted you here. It may not be that there is something 'wrong' with them. It may be that they didn't see your profile, that they do not come here often, that they found someone else, that they are taking a break, or any other possible reason.

To state: "What the hell is wrong with all of you men?!" Is to state something you have no evidence for. It is of course possible that every Atheist man here has something 'wrong' with him, but I think there are more reasonable answers to why they have not contacted you.
Living hundreds or thousands of miles away may be another reason some haven't tried...
Good luck. :)



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