Ok, so due to my inability to lower my standards, I have unwittingly dedicated myself to becoming an atheist nun....(kidding, but that's the way it's turning out). So I live in the buckle of the bible belt, I'm educated, attractive for my age, own my own business, and mindless sex is just so easy (and boring) for us....isn't it ladies??? (You guys know that's true) But finding someone you actually WANT to be with, now that is where things get good and complicated!! I've decided in my wisdom, that I will not settle. Since MOST atheists live far far away from me, it never really occurred to me to try and find a man that could keep up with me intellectually on this site, but what did occur to me, was that I would meet awesome people who are intelligent, well spoken, educated, (whether self taught or schooled), witty and socially aware. I have hit the mother load there!!! This site helps me hold on to the fact that there are growing numbers of people just like me out there and I am not alone!! Rational, kind, and well spoken non-believers! I LOVE yall people....!!! (no but really, I do! That's a facetious southern accent btw and yeah, I am a southern girl and lovin there are so many talking atheists on this site!!!)
Now that being said....it can be a lonely life. But I just can't, and won't settle. You feel me?

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Funny. I'm an atheist monk. :-)

Ohhhmmmm brother Taran



   It looks like you have a puppy. How can you feel alone?

OMG I can't tell you how I understand........... D:  I also find the rare atheist guy that introduces himself to me is......NO.
Yeah.......I know........I wish it weren't true.  I guess because we are atheist, we have cut our chances by 80% that we meet someone...but you know what they say, it will find you when you least expect it!!  Don't settle :)  But I don't have to tell you that!  You are already ahead of the curve....lol....sorry you landed in the nunnery!!!
Yeah, the odds are good but the goods are odd.....
Preach it sister ;)~

Yeah, worse than 80%, and then a good chunk of the remaining 10% to 15% are closeted.  Makes them hard to find.


There's likely to be some critical flaw with 98% of the prospects out there.  Case in point, even ignoring the severe attractiveness deficit that would prevent me from being appealing to her, there's Katie's desire for someone who chases her.  I don't play the chase-me game, so I wouldn't be a source of romantic stimulation to her ... or something along those lines.  Then, there's the liberal/Libertarian mismatch, which wouldn't make it impossible, but difficult.

Found this online today and thought I'd throw it into the mix: http://en.nothingisreal.com/wiki/Why_I_Will_Never_Have_a_Girlfriend

(The person who wrote it is an atheist with a sense of humor--check out the application to become his girlfriend: http://en.nothingisreal.com/wiki/Apply_to_be_Psychonaut's_girlfriend and scroll down to where he asks about "religious affiliation".)

It's like the Drake equation for possible girl friends.....lol  That is very clever!!!  Something tells me that guy was coming from the same place we are!!  Think we should copy this application and swap out the female traits on it for male characteristics and start "taking applications"???   LOL.....
nooooooooooohhhh nuns.
Yeah, I kinda feel the same way Jimbo....but something tells me there is more behind your statement than meets the eye....hehehe......no???




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