I was talking to my mother last night about everything and end up have conversations about woman right in Islam. These conversations begin when my mom talk about my cousin who is abused by her husband. She's physical and mentally abused and my mother seem very angry yet couldn't do anything about it. I'm not really sure why I started to open the Qur'an 4:34. So I asks my mom is that OK for man to beat up his woman? She told me if the woman disobey her husband then he has the right to beat her up when is necessary,also she mentioned to me that the husband has to remind or warning her before he take the last action to beat her up if the problem not resolve. So I asks my mom again, what if my husband beat me up are you OK? she said if you have done something wrong and your husband already try to remind you and you still didn't obey him than yes. So I aks her right in whose eye?. It took her a while to answer me but than she saids Muslim woman have obligation to totally submission for the husband. I got really dissapointed and said to my mom, nobody will nor allow to beat me up not even my husband,also there are no reasons for man beating up his wife. My Mother finally told me there is nothing that I can do because it is written on the Qur'an and I shouldn't even questioning it. She asks me to please drop the conversations and talk about something else and I did. She might get the idea of me dislike Islam. Make me wonder and ask to myself hmmmmmm basically man could made up any excuse about anything that doesn't please him so I guess he still have right to beat his wife. What do you think guys ?