Ive been exclusively same sex active for past several years and while that is probably my predominant orientation, I have had relationships w women in the past but find it very difficult to explore that side, with honesty and I would like to explore it. Dont know where to start really....
Some time back when I was coming to grips with my sexuality, I was hanging out on a GLBT BBS. Remember those - you know, the ones you DIALED INTO with a MODEM that made weird noises as it connected?!?
Anyway, I was lucky enough to run onto both a straight woman and a gay man who both were mature enough to figure that I was NOT straddling some sexual fence. Those two and others truly helped me in no small way to recognize and embrace my bisexuality when a lot of others in that same community expected me to commit one way or the other, straight or gay.
What's even screwier is that Kinsey determined over half a century ago that sexuality isn't a toggle switch but a CONTINUUM ... yet apparently there are people out there who don't want to hear that.