I heard this question on The Steve Harvey Project, lastnight.
Can a man love 2 women at once? Anyone have an opinion on that?
Of course not!
Each of us only has a certain amount of love that they have available to share.
This is why when a man gets married, he can no longer love his mother, and if he has a daughter, his wife loses out on being loved, and if he has a second daughter, too bad for the first.
OK sarcasm off - hopefully that illustrates the absurdity of the question.
Why do people think that ONE kind of love is only available in single doses, while other kinds are allegedly limitless?
I know many men, including myself, who have romantic love for more than one woman at a time. The biggest challenge is that it is not 'allowed' in mainstream society so folks usually end up either repressing it or expressing it in deceptive ways.
I agree, I think it is possible! I have a friend that was in a poligamist marriage. Hell, to each it's own, yanno. But, I was watching The Steve Harvey Project and the women on the show said "no". Steve Harvey said "yes". He should know, lol. Seeing the drama I have heard about him, lately. lol.
Ken, lol. Right!!!! The notion that a man get's married and he can no longer love is mother, crazy right! I remember being in church and hearing how some men pushed their mother's to the wayside because of their new wife. Because it was the Christian thing to do.
I think due to some of us being raised Christian, we still look at things like poligamy and multiple relationships as a taboo. However, I say, as long as all adults in the relationships are aware of and accepting of the circumstances...to each it's own.
Looking at it from biological angle, ideally, a man is expected to pregnate as many women as possible to increase the chances of producing offsprings that can best survive the extremities of existence on planet Earth. That probably explains why men produce millions of sperm cells per day and women produce just one egg every other month, in the average.
Similarly, in terms of biological evolution mechanism, a woman need to sleep with different men rather than attaching herself to just a particular male, doing so would inevitably increase the chances of producing children with higher survival instincts.
However, social norms and ofcourse the pressure from religious hypocritical ethics tend to repress these biological rules, and are in defiance with our biological hardwired make-up, we tend to encourage and promote monogamy and project it as a natural human sexual behaviour. However, just as we cannot cheat nature, nature has its own way to turn the table against us each time we pretend to change the game plan.
The results are that we have not allowed natural selection to come to play fully and this has consequently reduced our survival ratings as a race. The effects may not be too apparent today as modern science has allowed some otherwise 'rejects' to survive in the population. However, if an unknown viral disease from outer space befalls the human race, we may be doomed to a total extinction.
OMG, lol. So well put Danladi. Do you mind if I copy and paste this to my facebook. I can leave your name out, if you would prefer that.