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There seem to be a few of us ex-mo's in the Nexus and it is good to share the particular intricacies of extracting oneself from Mormonism.
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Started by Selina Mannion. Last reply by Boulder Rocks Jul 5, 2013.
Started by Loni. Last reply by Nate Lundgren Jun 24, 2013.
I was a devout Mormon who only started questioning my beliefs when my brother came out as gay. After he shot himself on the steps of an LDS stake center one year later I REALLY started to question and it led me down the path to Atheism. Strangely I still love the Bible and find it very interesting from an academic standpoint, but I can't stand the B of M which is obviously just a cobbling together of Bible verses, J Smith's personal religious beliefs, and a very poorly constructed story that is so bad I have to shake me head in disbelief at times.
Well, Mormonism is an interesting thing. But I have to be fair and say that I think may religions do similar things to ex-members. I don't think Mormons have a corner on the market on ostracizing former member. Just last week there was a trial where the courts were trying to decide if it was legal for an Amish sect to cut their members' beards as punishment for not conforming to standards. Now for you and me that is not a big deal, but for the people of this sect, it was a BIG deal. And the courts decided that religious freedom be damned, you can't do that to people. However, as in the case of Mormonism, just because you can't treat people illegally doesn't mean that you can't harm them just as bad with legal crap. I know that there are many things that are conveyed through a nuanced voice that are just as bad as a burning cross in the front yard, if you know what I mean?
I was in mormonism for ~55 years and guilt was deeply ingrained in me. I've gotten rid of a lot of it, but still have a ways to go.
My family are still firm mormons and I imagine they feel the same as yours, that I'll come back some day, however, they haven't told me that yet. Probably because I made it very clear how firm an atheist I am.
Hello Annie. Welcome from another ex-mo. Hope you enjoy it here. Very nice to meet you.
Hi all. New to AN, but not to Mormonism and the guilt it can inspire in those of us not longer in its clutches. I come from a tightly knit pack of Mormons who struggle with my atheistic identity and are sure that one day I'll "come back to the fold." However, I know that peace can be achieved in accepting myself for who I am and that it's not always easy. Glad to be a part of the bigger picture.
Thanks Nate. The church does make a lot of us hate ourselves. I can relate to that boy's struggles.
just 10-15 pages is good enough.
I would like a story of how one person was mormon and how they "saw the light" I am a former muslim and my story will be included in the anthology. My anthology is about leaving your religion for atheism.
I was hardcore LDS until my mission, when I started to doubt. The doubt increased during law school and became mature when I started my law practice. Now, I am a secular humanist. My family is still in the church, which is hard. You can check out my blog at www.Theofrak.com. Glad to find group of people who have similar attitudes about the LDS church.
Tourette's syndrome opera was pretty much an on-the-spot made up thing, and it shifted towards nastier and more blasphemous when my brother and I grew up and went on trips ourselves without our true-blue Mormon mother. We haven't gone on a car trip together since he got married 12 years ago, and I can't really remember most of the songs - and most of the ones I can are not acceptable or printable here...the recipe's easy enough. Take a hymn (or any other well known tune) keep a few identifying lyrics, and replace the rest with as much vile-ness, political incorrectness, and offensiveness as you can possibly dream up.
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