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"Hi!" as assertion of dominance

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 20. 3 Replies

I Used a Hanger (Daily Kos)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 6. 18 Replies

Climate Change Hits Women Hardest

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 22. 0 Replies

A Gentlemen's Guide to Rape Culture

Started by Merelen. Last reply by Sergeant Schultz Feb 29. 24 Replies

Sexism requires dehumanising women

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 6. 6 Replies

Fear and contempt against us

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by tom sarbeck Feb 2. 11 Replies

Gender Ratio Danger

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jan 29. 5 Replies

Think twice about marrying a police officer

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Nov 6, 2015. 6 Replies

Separate and unequal laws for pregnant women

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Oct 9, 2015. 0 Replies

Traumatic Brain Injury common among abused women

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jun 24, 2015. 15 Replies


Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Jan 29, 2015. 1 Reply

Men not empathic partners

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Dec 18, 2014. 8 Replies

Sarah's solution to the $500,000 vagina tax

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Luara Oct 15, 2014. 2 Replies

Birth Control Power

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Oct 14, 2014. 0 Replies

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Comment by Plinius on April 22, 2016 at 12:00am

Their intelligence must be staggering!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 21, 2016 at 4:45pm

In the "you can't make this stuff up" category, PayPal holds a panel to discuss workplace gender equality, and all male panel.

PayPal’s All Male Panel to Discuss Gender Inclusion in the Workplace

Comment by Plinius on November 5, 2015 at 11:19am

Like over here? I never wore a bra until the weight made me buy one, somewhere between 30 and 40.

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 4, 2015 at 8:25pm

Heh! Also the guy nervously asking his mother on the phone, "So how do you wash a bra?"

I wouldn't mind a society where wearing a bra or not, according to a woman's own choice and comfort, is as much of a nonissue as wearing a watch or not.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 4, 2015 at 8:18pm

LOL, Grinning Cat. Hilarious.

Try this on for size. Guys discover what it's like to wear a bra for a week.

After running in a sports bra, "It's like wearing wet boxer briefs made of scuba material."

Comment by Grinning Cat on September 1, 2015 at 7:46am

Speaking of "forced-birth" politicians deliberately eroding abortion access, sex education, and contraception access:

(Gynecologist to patient with her legs spread in stirrups) I see the problem. You have Republicans in your vagina.(my tweak of an image I've seen on the web)

Comment by Joseph P on May 11, 2015 at 10:29pm

... forced-birth movement ...

I'll have to remember that one.  I haven't used the term pro-life, when describing them, for at least 5 or 6 years, since they're not, as you said.  I pretty much always refer to them as anti-choicers.  It'll be nice to have a swap-out term, though.

This is one of the things you get from religiously inspired movements.  They deliberately misuse words to apply emotional triggers to things, rather than using words for clear, precise descriptions of the way things actually are.

You get a little bit of this from all sides, when it comes to politics, but I find it far, far more common on the conservative side of things.

I'm actually anti-abortion.  I think we should do everything we can to reduce it, short of violating a person's bodily autonomy.  Specifically, we need decent sex education and free access to contraception, which the anti-choicers are also against, strangely.

As for the high heel thing ... yeah, meh.  Notice the feet of a woman who wears high heels all the time.  Most people's toes aren't generally in a wedge shape like that, and the arches become all kinds of fucked up, such that their toes point up in the air, when they're walking barefoot, in some extreme examples of regular abuse.

I think high-heeled boots do a little less damage, since you have more side support, and lower heels aren't as bad, but after you crank people up more than an inch or so, it gets bad pretty quickly.

Comment by Grinning Cat on May 11, 2015 at 3:55pm

Some excellent framing I wish I'd learned about earlier:

Opposition to abortion access (a.k.a. the anti-choice "pro-life" movement) is aptly called the forced-birth movement.

(In a discussion arguing that nationwide marriage equality won't inspire the sort of conservative backlash Roe v. Wade did: "The forced birth movement was able to make a lot of hay over abortion because it is a private and not very pleasant experience - no one throws a party to celebrate their abortion, so the Right can paint women who have abortions as selfish baby killers. But the lies and myths and propaganda the Right has used against gay people can't survive our visibility...." There's also discussion there on the parallels between LGBTQ* and atheist visibility and acceptance.)

As Tim Peacock wrote: "Many of the people who call themselves pro-life are also pro-death penalty. They’re pro-war. They’re anti-welfare and regard those in need seeking assistance as below them.... None of those people are truly pro-life; rather, they’re anti-woman,anti-choice, and pro-forced-birth. And good luck to the child that enters the world in those circumstances: [cartoon below]"

Two men and a woman, to a pregnant woman's belly: "We'll do whatever we can to protect your life!" To the baby, after it's born: "Now you're on your own! Get a job, moocher!" "I hope your tramp mom doesn't want food stamps to feed you!" "Or medical insurance!"

Comment by Grinning Cat on May 11, 2015 at 2:49pm

That comparison of stiletto heels to mountain goats on a steep slope made me think of the submissive gesture of the very long ceremonial trousers that impeded normal walking, the naga-bakama that were sometimes required for samurai appearing before the shogun. This warrior is standing upright, not kneeling:


(image source)

Anyway, a girlfriend whose shoe size was the same as mine once encouraged me to try on a pair of her moderately high-heeled boots. My gut reaction: "How do people keep their balance in these things?!?!"

Personal choices and preferences are fine; nobody should feel pressure to sacrifice their comfort and freedom of movement to look "sexy" for men!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 21, 2015 at 10:15pm


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