LGBTQI atheists, nontheists, and friends


LGBTQI atheists, nontheists, and friends

Nontheist lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex people & friends.

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Gender Identity and Sustainability

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Epigenetics and sexual orientation

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Gaydar doesn't exist and it's bad?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Daniel W Sep 13. 2 Replies

Homophobia as pathology

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 11. 0 Replies

The Trans Issue

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Denise Deiloh Sep 3. 4 Replies

Does Obama's gay advocacy exclude trans

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Betty Bowers on PRIDE

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Comment by Daniel W on October 26, 2015 at 9:40pm

This is kind of a reasonable documentary.  I don't care for the title - what next, "How we got women" or "How we got black"?

I actually remember it being even worse than the documentary can describe.  And the journey far more difficult.  I''d like some reparations.  And wont get them, so you have to move on.

Anyway, better than some versions. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 1, 2015 at 6:16pm

Yeah, that's a great video as well, Daniel.  Thanks for posting it. 

I also enjoyed your childhood story about interracial marriages.  So many of kids' "But why?" questions are asked because what they see just doesn't make sense in their eyes. 

Just think about all the current fuss parents are making about allowing trans-gendered school students to use the bathroom in which they feel the most comfortable.  Some parents are outraged, but I bet if you surveyed the students, most would likely not even care or want it to be an issue.  That's why being a good parent (or mentor) is so crucial to our future.  Kids learn their values from adults. 

Comment by Daniel W on October 1, 2015 at 4:37pm

Carl, thank you for posting.  Intersex folks need to be included at the top of the list.  Somehow, people who are intersex are often left out of the discussion.  That is unwise, unfair, and wrong.

Ages ago, in my racist church, I got into trouble for asking "If no one can marry outside their race, then who do racially mixed people marry?"   The answer was never good - some people said interracial had to marry interracial people.  Some said they couldn't marry anyone.  Others said you had to marry the race that you looked the most like.   If you are 50% one thing and 50% another, then you have to marry someone with the same proportions of the same races.  My conclusion was that racists were just stupid.  They pretend race is an absolute barrier, but don't realize there is no barrier, only fuzzy overlay.  Which is good.  Fuzz is much more interesting and enjoyable than stone.

With intersex, it's sort of a similar thing, barriers not being what we are taught.  If you have to marry "the other gender", and intersex people are both or neither, or something else, then who do they marry?  If only each other, then does that mean there are more than 2 genders?  If so, then the entire christian basis of man+woman falls apart.

In the end, we are all only human.  We HAVE to stand up against medicalized genital mutilation by surgeons and paid for by health insurance.  It is not gender correction, and not gender assignment.  It is mutilation.

Here is a video I liked a lot.  Different topic.  I think this kid is adorable.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 1, 2015 at 12:30pm

Another great interview (and a cat.)

Comment by Daniel W on September 27, 2015 at 7:30am
BB, I agree that Letter to KD is an interesting angle, sort of. I never get LGBT christisnity. To me its just another case of cherry picking the bible snd religion, mor morphing of the continuously self aggrandizing / narcissistic culture of christianity.

A culture war, of course, needs warriors or many talents and inclinations. Im glad religion has morphed enough that a Lesbian can be a minister, but to me she's still sleeping with the enemy so to speak.

The Kim Davis saga continues. I wish I bever heard of that bigot.
Comment by Grinning Cat on September 26, 2015 at 7:53pm

We still have plenty to do in the world, where in some countries we can't take life and liberty for granted!!

On a much lighter note, the Huffington Post published some art appropriate for wrapping up Bisexual Awareness Week. A bit from one of the cartoons:

“Wait, you’re a lesbian now?” “No. I told you I’m bi.”“Back to men? I knew you were straight.” “Nope. Still bi.”(...more...)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 25, 2015 at 5:00pm

Here's a wonderful interview with Bisi Alimi, a Nigerian activist. I stand in awe of such individuals who are fighting for our rights in the most intolerant places. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 25, 2015 at 9:37am

Unfortunately you're absolutely right about that Carl. Nothing will ever make a dent with these people. Fingers in ears - la la la la la la la la la la la la la la la I can't hear you.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 25, 2015 at 9:33am

That's a great letter, Bertold. Many good rational points in it. But rationality isn't a strong characteristic of fundamental christians. At the end of the day, this gay pastor will be classified by the fundamentalists as just another deviant who is not a "True Christian." Case closed. No more need for additional arguments. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 25, 2015 at 8:43am

Religion Dispatches published


Although it's rife with religious tripe, it's an interesting angle.


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