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Using Bone Ashes in the Garden. 12.9.18
Randy, absolutely, your great-grandfathers for generations used the authoritarian method and that system tends to raise up people that we no longer think is proper, appropriate, healthy living. Control was a big issue
My former husband was a Smith and we, the therapist and I, thought that was why the children and I experienced such brutal behavior. I accepted it as normal because I was raised by an authoritarian father and mother. It took me far too long to realize we were not raising healthy children. One boy was a bully, the other boy was a sissy, and the girl was timid to the point of not speaking her truth, until one day, she stood in front of her Dad and said, "You don't have the right to treat us this way!" When she said that, her nose was at the level of his brass buckle. Her words woke me up and I left with three ten-year-old children, two mother cats with their litters, and pulling a camping trailer that we lived in for a year until we bought that old, condemned house for $12,000, which we paid off quickly. We, the children and I, turned it into a beautiful home. Selling that place was the hardest thing I think I have ever done.
So, give yourself a hug, pat yourself on the back, and know that your life has meaning and it is your right and responsibility to think for yourself.
You "taught middle school science (mostly)," and that means that you did a job that few people do well. You brought science to life for young children and that makes a difference in their lives. Congratulate yourself for a job well done and celebrate that fact.
Daniel, the mushrooms are so pretty, are they edible? I can imagine myself drawing up a big mushroom and watching the activity of living things doing their tasks all around the barrel. My dreaming mind can take me to magical events.
I tried to find evidence for the following: that leaching means the water dissolves whatever mineral comes out of the leaves and soil, percolates into the root zone, and roots draw up the mineral-loaded water into the plant. I find no such verification of that statement. I must have read it somewhere, but know not where.
I belong to a group, sponsored by the Kalispel Tribe, to put into place healthy forest management. According to the tribe, their ancestors burned the forests on a regular basis to kill out weak trees, give space to healthy trees to grow strong ones and to provide sunlight to the understory so that berries and other food could grow. The U.S. Forest Service has a member of this new group; he criticizes the forest management system, too.
I asked, at the last meeting, what role fungal mycelium plays in the health of the forests. They could tell me nothing more than we learned here, together, when we had that discussion. I have nothing new to add, Daniel.
Just made my donation to California Camp Fire disaster.....anyone joining me?
Randy, I hear you! Parents can impose a cloud pf self-doubt on their children. We have to remember that we grew up in a time of very hard working parents, low income, a very widespread between rich and poor, and their parents had it even harder than they did. Criticism was the only method of training they knew; they were still a part of the Dominator Society. Our parents began the break and my and your generation have the remnants of what it means to be a parent.
We know better now. The research is very clear about the harmful effects authoritarian parenting can be and how deadly harmful religion still is.
What we have to do is parent ourselves in a healthy way. Give ourselves hugs and expressions of "Good job," now and then. When we catch ourselves feeling negative about ourselves we have the right and responsibility to turn that inner self-talk into positive expressions.
When you feel negative, find a positive friend, book, story that turns it around to positive. Recognize those feelings are your friend, telling you that you need to take a look at your chatter and replace it with positive chatter.
Your vocation, your work, your job is to define who you are to the world. No one can define you but you. So, think of your thoughts with an attitude of gratitude, be thankful as you rethink, be deliberate in turning your thoughts into pride and self-respect.
Loam, I don't get upset with anyone else's bad memory because mine is not good. My brother did get sick a couple of times by eating old mushrooms or questionable mushrooms. He was a little too much of a daredevil, even though he was an expert.
But he didn't die from eating mushrooms. He shot himself because of unrequited love.
I know one thing, Daniel: don't eat those mushrooms!
Speaking of which, I made a mushroom and black bean soup last night. Chicken of the woods mushroom I found several weeks ago. Really good soup, if I do say so.
And, Daniel, in regard to your comment about my comment, my great X 3 grandfather came from Germany, possibly a Schmidt Americanized into Smith. That might explain Dad's negativity. Hopefully, I've ended the "tradition".
Spud, my memory plays games with me. For some reason, I'm thinking you lost your brother due to mushrooms? Please forgive me if I'm wrong.
It's amazing to me that fungal mycelium grows through the soil, sort of like cobwebs among the soil particles, and every now and then they send up these completely different, organized mushroom structures. And those mycelium connect to plant roots, and interchange nutrients with plants.
I used to buy mycorrhizal inoculum, thinking it would benefit my plants. Now I think that was unnecessary and possibly completely futile, given the diversity and numbers of mushrooms I find around the property. I think the main thing is to just let the existing ones grow. But last winter I did buy morel spawn. I didn't have the ambition to prepare the ground properly, just buried chunks of it around dying trees and some new chestnut trees.
I've always found mushrooms fascinating, but never studied them enough to know which ones I could eat, like my brother did. He was an expert.
Joan, thanks for the info regarding leaves. I'll be hauling another batch today.
For the most part, this year's leaf mulch goes on top of the mulch from last year, which is almost disappeared. It did a great job suppressing weeds, and kept the ground more moist during a record hot summer. For the area where I want to extend mulch and kill off grass, I'll leave them in place for the long term.
I wonder if they have proof about leaching mineral content? I guess that doesnt matter forme. My soul is high in most minerals, except calcium and magnesium. Wood ashes and Epsom salts take care of that.
Randy, Im sorry to hear about your dad's negativity. I know how that is too... I thought it was a German midwest thing.
mushrooms today. Chilly out there but not frozen yet.
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