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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Daniel W on July 17, 2011 at 12:54am
Comment by Marcelo Martínez Cuevas on July 17, 2011 at 12:28am
Just passing by to say hi to everyone...
Comment by tom sarbeck on July 17, 2011 at 12:18am

Dave Silverman, of American Atheists, was on Fox and Friends this morning (Sat) and said the Hair Man was using religion to direct attention away from his own failure to fix problems in Texas.

 

Comment by Lary9 on July 16, 2011 at 11:40pm
Candace and Alyson~ I've been to Texas and explored its variety of habitats. No doubt about it, Texas is a starkly beautiful, yet occasionally plush, place. My attitude isn't shaped by the natural wonder of it, the climate, the sunsets, or the warm, arid days that tamp down anxiety in the cowboy heart. It's about the people...and even then, it's only about the people when they gather in self-suggestive mobs and chant religious spells to invisible, omnipotent authorities and then claim that personal revelation has occurred. My problem is with Texas when it's crazy. Unfortunately, it has more than its share of that. Who knows why.
Comment by Chris G on July 16, 2011 at 5:46pm
A funny reply to what church to you belong to is : Pastafarian.
Comment by dr kellie on July 16, 2011 at 4:28pm
I love the Damned Bridge Club! 
Comment by Natalie A Sera on July 16, 2011 at 2:35pm

Kit, I had my first teaching job in western Nebraska, and the question "What church do you go to" is the first question they ask there, too. I was raised in Los Angeles, and California and the West in general are pretty laid-back about religion, and at the time, I still identified as Jewish (I still do, culturally and ethnically), and their usual reaction was "Oh, do you know Dr. Nashelsky? He's Jewish!" That was the only thing they could think of to say.

The biggest issue for me was that the entire community revolved around the church, and since I wasn't a church member, I was basically an outsider, with very little social life. In retrospect, I learned something, but I was never so glad as when I got another job out West, and could get out of there!

Comment by G Smith on July 16, 2011 at 9:02am

I often heard:

1. Oh, I don't really know for sure.

2. I have to pretend to believe to get along here.

3. I say I believe because if my mom heard different, she'd just die.

Comment by Kit Blumenstein on July 16, 2011 at 8:45am

I do know what you mean, Candace as I currently live in the DFW area.  Sometimes escape from the plains is required to renew and rejuvenate.  I grew up in San Antonio, and spent much of my youth working on a ranch in the hill country.  The beauty of Texas may something for only those of us who live here.  The INstanTEA of Texas is another thing, that needs to be sent far, far away.

 

@ Gary, these days when meeting someone new the first question they will ask is "What church do y'all go to?"  Grammar aside, should the answer be none or one that is considered unacceptable, all conversation ceases and even names are not exchanged.

 

Should the frontman for the "hair club for men" gain in the polls, it will in part be due to his peddling of his convenient use of religion.  This governor has accomplished little and rides on the backs of those who did work for the betterment and progess of this state. 

Comment by G Smith on July 16, 2011 at 2:38am
I lived in Texas for nearly 15 years, just west of Fort Worth.  I found that when I asked people there whether they believed in a god, they almost always said that they did.  However, when I prefaced the question by saying that I didn't believe, I often got a different answer.
 

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