Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee yesterday. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 17. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 10, 2012 at 2:16pm

Thanks for the post, Simone. It's an interesting study, albeit biased toward theism. Human beings have very flexible minds. I was always fascinated by accounts of how we failed to distinguish inner voices from outer (real) voices before widespread print literacy. For example Michael Foucault's describes how we once organized reality very differently in The Archaeology of Knowledge. Most people don't realize that reality as we perceive it is largely organized culturally at a deep level prior to perception. As I see it, our collective grasp of reason and subjective vs objective is more fragile than "common sense" admits.

Comment by Simone Rosa on April 10, 2012 at 12:03am

Talk about an imaginary invisible friend!  I almost ran off the road when I heard today's Fresh Air story -


Comment by Pamela on April 8, 2012 at 10:12am

Happy Zombie Jesus Day to you too Chris.  Careful now....he wants your brain!!!

Comment by Chris Dodds on April 8, 2012 at 9:19am


Comment by Steph S. on April 7, 2012 at 6:49pm
Condolences Patricia. My thoughts are with you.
Comment by Plinius on April 7, 2012 at 12:49am

My condolences too, Patricia. What horrible discarding of rules by the medical staff!

Comment by Michael Brodie on April 7, 2012 at 12:13am

I am very sad about your Mom.  She had some good years left.  I read that 100,000 people die every year in the USA from bad drug reactions and interactions.  Again, soory for your loss.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 6, 2012 at 11:30pm

I'd be very angry too, Patricia. Thanks for sharing your story.

Comment by Ian Mason on April 6, 2012 at 10:19pm

Condolences, Patricia. My mother had a similar experience with morphin after a cancer operation but luckily was awake enough to say "no" to a second dose after the shift change. What was it Einstein said about human stupidity being endless?

Comment by sk8eycat on April 6, 2012 at 3:10pm

@Pat - YES!

I have some friends who "got religion" a few years after they were married, and he became a very successful minister (they hang out with people like Tim and Beverly LeHaye...gack!).  A few years ago, during a class reunion, a bunch of us went to the hamburger joint where we had always gone after football games and dates when we were teens, and The Rev. insisted we all hold hands while he thanked his imaginary friend for the burgers and fries...for a very long time. 

I was so embarrassed!  I just sat there and stared out the window till he got over himself, then I looked him in the eye and said, what about thanking the cooks and our waitress?  He never did give me a proper answer...just tried to insert "gawd" into everything he said. 

We ALL put substantial tips on the table as we left.

PS: I still hear from his wife sometimes...she's always thought I should have been a stand-up comic.  [shrugs] 


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