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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat 17 hours ago. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

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10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 21. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

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Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on April 22, 2012 at 5:04pm

Dear Flying A...(Did you know that was the brand name of a major oil company when I was a kid?  Srsly.)  If you want to read more about what great company we are in, read The Good Atheist by Dan Barker. The first part of the book is a rebuttal to Rick Warren's The Purpose-Driven Life, (another silly screed about "gawd's plan" for each of us...Eye.  Emm.  Sewww.  Shurrrre!). 

The major part of Dan's book is a list of famous atheists and agnostics with short bios of each one.  You'll be surprised at some of them, and delighted with all of them.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 22, 2012 at 1:18pm

@ sk8eycat   Thanks for the bit of history about Yip Harburg.  You prompted me to read his Wikipedia page.  A very interesting person, indeed.  We atheists sure are in great company. 

Comment by sk8eycat on April 22, 2012 at 12:56pm

PS: Happy Urth Day to ALL!

 

And check out the Google logo for today...wait for it to move...

Comment by sk8eycat on April 22, 2012 at 12:52pm

O, wow!  How purrfect!

Did you know that all the lyrics and a great deal of the dialog for "The Wizard..." was written by Yip Harburg, a lifelong atheist?  (He wrote that classic scene where Toto exposes the god-like wizard as a fraud. Among other things.)

Comment by Steph S. on April 22, 2012 at 12:00am

Hope everyone is having a great weekend!

Comment by Debbie Deal on April 11, 2012 at 10:35am

Love the video!

Comment by sk8eycat on April 11, 2012 at 1:51am

Ruth, I hear Mom say my name. 

I took care of her off and on for the last 9 years of her life (she made it to 87, despite metastatic cancer, and various other ailments after she was cancer-free), and I also still simetimes wake up thinking I have to go in her room to check on her before I'm completely awake.

Another weird thing...in the fall of 1957 I was 17, and on my first tour with HOI, and about half the show had come down with the first wave of Asian Flu.  I did NOT write home about that.  By my 18th birthday, I was pretty sick, but I decided to splurge and call home, anyway (from Macon, GA. Remember how much long distance calls cost back then?).  The first thing mother said when she picked up the phone was NOT "Happy Birthday!"  She said, "What's WRONG?"

Spooky. 

Comment by Barend van der Merwe on April 11, 2012 at 12:45am

Beautiful video sk8eycat - wish it didn't end...

:-)

Comment by Barend van der Merwe on April 11, 2012 at 12:42am

Hello - I think that is just awesome Ruth.

Always something new and amazing about the natural world and ourselves.

Thanks everyone - love the discussion.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 11, 2012 at 12:19am

Sk8eycat, I'd like to reply to your hearing your mother's name. We have language only in the higher brain, with one exception, recognizing the calls of mothers to children. Just like the penguin who can find her chick in a colony of tens of thousands by recognizing his cry, mammals know their mother's call with the lymbic system. I had a similar experience once, when I was lonely, and just as I was falling asleep I thought I heard family quietly moving about in the house (as if I were not alone). It was comforting. We have these primitive brain memories of being loved, and can call them up involuntarily with an inner voice. I've learned to be comfortable with these primitive parts of myself.

 

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