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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jan 31. 66 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

Tags: Lesbian, agnostic, gay, atheist, TheraminTrees

If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

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Comment by Joan Denoo 14 hours ago

OK, how do we shift the Overton Window to the Left? 

The Overton Window and the New Right

Social Reform or Social Revolution?

Well, I have some reading to do. 

Comment by Ian Mason 15 hours ago

Hope you feel better soon, Ruth.

Crocodile meat: light and slightly savoury; it's asif the crocodile drank a bottle of Worcestershire sauce while still alive.

Comment by Joan Denoo 16 hours ago

Ruth, is this the man that shares your splendid writings with us? Bergen? 

Comment by Joan Denoo 16 hours ago

Ruth, I look forward to your total and quick recovery from those things that hold you from full comfort and pleasure. Spring will be popping in the forest, if not the vernal equinox, yet. 

Comment by k.h. ky 20 hours ago
Loren, I like the quote from Isaiah. More proof that, if god exists, he rigged the game from the word go. Much like the idea of original sin.
Comment by Randall Smith yesterday

Cool, Ruth! Your husband in the band, that is, not your dizziness. Hope you get to feeling better soon.

That D-K Effect sounds like a good description of one of my son-in-laws. I won't say which one, but he lives in Honduras. Irritating, to say the least. His attempt to impress me is unimpressive.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday

Hi, all. I've been a bit brainless the last few days. Yesterday and last night I was dizzy and lightheaded. Finally I  figured out that the steroid creams prescribed by my dermatologist for a persistent rash sent my blood pressure way up. <sigh> Always something. Now I have to wait for my body to flush them out and BP to return to just elevated. Maybe in a day or so my brain will come back, and I'll have more to contribute socially.

Right now my husband is performing with his new band "Smooth Transitions". Their first gig since he joined. He's the one with the beard.

What a shock that liberal means something so different in Netherlands politics.

Bernie Sanders has moved the Overton Window in "Socialist" lately in the US, Plinius.

So what does crocodile meat taste like, Ian?

I'm familiar with the Dunning-Kruger Effect.

While it resembles a Sophomore's wisdom,

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Comment by Joan Denoo on Saturday

Who? Oh! I have never heard of that, at least I don't remember. 

Dunning-Kruger Effect

"The miscalibration of the incompetent stems from an error about the self, whereas the miscalibration of the highly competent stems from an error about others."

I've known people like that, people who know it all and think everyone else is stupid. They are loud, opinionated, arrogant, domineering, while others who can get things, done, school came easy for them, they have people skills as well as mental skills and assume life is as easy for everyone. 

Comment by Loren Miller on Saturday

The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
-- Bertrand Russell

Dunning-Kruger, anyone?

Comment by Joan Denoo on Saturday

Charles Darwin

“Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge: it is those who know little, not those who know much, who so positively assert that this or that problem will never be solved by science. 

― Charles DarwinThe Descent of Man
 

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