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Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for women, native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 3 Replies

Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?On blacks:"We think they are not, and that they are not included, and were not intended to be included…. They…Continue

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Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Chris G on Friday. 16 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 24. 17 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 22. 83 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 19. 8 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 27, 2012 at 7:35pm

Joe, as a fellow polyamorist I wish marriage contracts allowed multi-partner options. Someday, perhaps, if we evolve.

Comment by Chantal Wallace on May 27, 2012 at 7:15pm
Even though most wedding are conducted in religious places, you still have to obtain a marriage license. It's a contract. And there are many benefits to getting married. Y'all can file taxes together, residency rights if your spouse isn't a citizen, y'all can share employer benefits (i.e. Medical insurance), etc. You don't have to have the whole fancy wedding in a church to get these benefits either. You just need a judge to sign the license. :)
Comment by Joe Meyer on May 27, 2012 at 6:11pm

Something I have always wondered about is marriage in general, wasn't it a religious custom and idea? Being a life long Atheist, and someone who has lived polyamorous once I have never understood the concept, but maybe I am just the odd ball lol.

Comment by Sarah on May 27, 2012 at 1:42pm

Well, I survived the wedding mass (all 85 minutes of it). But not without the staff at the Catholic church messing with me. The reading was supposed to be on the podium for me, so I wouldn't have to bring anything up. They had shown me the notebook on Friday and given me an exact copy of what was in the notebook so I would be able to practice with it and know where the words were on the page so I could look down gracefully. But the reading in the notebook on Saturday evening was TOTALLY different. Different format, different verses. GAH!

Comment by Steph S. on May 26, 2012 at 11:06pm

Ruth that is an excellent observation. I agree.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 26, 2012 at 10:24pm

Sara, I think most people go through religious marriage ceremonies because they haven't rebelled against customary expectations. Questioning religion takes a lot of gut wrenching self-questioning, unless you were raised atheist. Not everyone has the wherewithal, emotionally, to do that at the age of youth or young adulthood. Some people don't get around to the deep questions until much later in life, many never get there. It's easier to just live up to the expectations pushed upon you.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 26, 2012 at 8:17pm

A fake you say? Please post that information in the discussion Surreal I haz it. I wondered about the dark nebula cloud objects in that position.

Comment by sk8eycat on May 26, 2012 at 3:30pm

I dunno which group to hunt up the "Solar Eclipse from Space" image that was posted somewhere in AN yesterday, but...Snopes says it's a fake; a beautiful work of art that started circulating oon the net in 2009:

http://www.snopes.com/photos/space/solareclipse.asp

Drat!

Comment by Steph S. on May 26, 2012 at 2:21pm
Happy Memorial Day weekend! Be safe!
Comment by Sarah on May 26, 2012 at 1:20pm

But, yes, I will rock my reading and revel in my friends' happiness. And I will behave. ;)

 

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