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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee on Saturday. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 17. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 8, 2012 at 5:52pm

sk8eycat, I corrected some mistakes. Yes, of course you may use it. 

"I don't understand evolution!"?

Why is it easier to believe that some sky spirit created Earth and all that inhabit it in six days and took the seventh off? Or believe dinosaurs and homo sapiens co-existed? Or believe the Earth is 6,000 years old, +-, whatever? Or believe that man was created to obey "god"; how do you know which god? Or believe that Noah's flood created the Grand Canyon, or that some poor bloke lived inside the belly of a whale, or stones talk, or a man named Jesus is the son of god, born of a virgin, was crucified, died, was resurrected and ascended into heaven? or god punishes all who do not obey him and sends them to eternal damnation in a lake of fire and rewards those sheep who follow him with eternal life with relatives who make no sense, or that one must be "born-again" to satisfy some un-seeable being, or that there is no moral or ethical code without religion. 

You folks just make no sense to me and I am not interested in your people knocking on my door or calling me. I have very low regard for those who manipulate and exploit others using fear as a weapon instead of thinking reasonably. And above all else, keep your damnable beliefs out of science schoolrooms. Your message is just plain child abuse. 


Comment by Joan Denoo on September 8, 2012 at 5:17pm

sk8eycat, I understand your feeling; reading the buybull is the best remedy for religiosity I know of, other than sermons and buybull study. The phrase that got me was being told to "crucify yourself daily in imitation of the crucified christ." If Christ was crucified for my sins, why do I have to do it too? 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 4:08pm

I've always wanted a black one and an orange one at the same time...Halloween jelly beans, but it's never quite worked out that way, and I can only support two any and "biscuit" colored.

The Pumpkin (I did NOT name him that!)

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Comment by Steph S. on September 8, 2012 at 3:32pm
Black cats are my favorite!
Love your new kitties Chris!
How wonderful for you!
Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 3:29pm

Chris, what pretty kitties!  And thank you for adopting a black cat; a lot of shelters around here have trouble finding homes for black cats.  Lotta superstitious fools in Los Angeles.

Comment by Plinius on September 8, 2012 at 2:50pm

Lovely cats, Lula and Maya!

This is Luna.DSC06152.JPG

And her brother Dido.


Both from the local animal shelter and I'm very proud that they have grown into such wonderful friends.

Comment by Nayr Namel on September 8, 2012 at 2:41pm
dam i went to my email and saw 43 replys from atheist nexus, i was like OMG and now that im here i just said fuck it to trying to see what people replied lol (on ps3 not computer) yah this group is active
Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 1:52pm


Jeff Smith's Cranberry Ice   
3 Cups fresh (or frozen) cranberries
3 Cups Water
1 1/2 Cups sugar (or 1 1/4 Cups Splenda)
1 tsp fresh lemon juice
Simmer the cranberries and water in a covered stainless steel pot until they are very tender, about 10 minutes.
Strain the berries, reserving the juice, and puree in a food processor with a little of the juice.
Add the remaining juice, sugar and lemon juice, and pulse a few times just until blended.
Chill in refrigerator, and then freeze in a Donvier-type ice cream maker.
PS: I don't have a stainless steel pot of the right size, so I use one of my enamel-coated old DescoWare saucepans.  I think Pyrex would work, too...just don't use aluminum.  Felaine
PPS: The Frugal Gourmet Cooks American has pages and pages of cranberry recipes, from snacks to main dishes, sides, and desserts.
Beats a side of god swill any day! (Even though The Frug started out as a minister...)


Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 1:26pm

Oh, LA! The husband of the manager of the Cat Hotel played Timon (and other roles) in the stage production of "The Lion King" in Hollywood. 

They met when they were both in "Cats" on Broadway...she was the second dancer/singer to play Victoria, the little white cat, and he was a "swing boy"...filled in many different roles, but mostly Mephistopholes. Claudia played Victoria for NINE YEARS!  I can't imagine doing the same show every night for that long.

Comment by Derek Bly on September 8, 2012 at 11:43am

And, yes, I know that Timon in Disney was a meerkat!


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