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The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev 19 hours ago. 2 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G yesterday. 22 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 25. 11 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 21. 24 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Aug 14. 91 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Wedding Haka - Subtitled & translated

Started by Joan Denoo Aug 13. 0 Replies

I ran across a video of a wedding in which a group of wedding guests celebrated with a performance of a traditional Māori ancestral war dance, called a Haka. It was intended for sons, however, the women have joined in a participation of…Continue

Tags: new, traditions., women, men, Haka

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Comment by Qiana-Maieev 5 hours ago

Has anyone who knows where this Pat lives, looked up obituaries with Pat, Patrick, etc., in the names?

Comment by Joan Denoo 6 hours ago

I used Search Google by image and learned this: 

 plaza de la revolución "Revolution Square" is a municipality (or borough) and a square in Havana, Cuba.

That is as far as I could go.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan 6 hours ago

I really miss Pat as well. He brought a wonderfully sardonic sense of humor and a magnificent way with words to us all.

Comment by Daniel Wachenheim 6 hours ago
Joan, Im not related to the guy in New Jersey and probably not to the German one. There is probably a remote historic connection to the Rhine Valley wine country village of the same name. The family lore was, they emigrated from Baden after a priest, my ancestor's brother, told the local baron that my ancestor killed one of his deer. There may be no truth in that at all.

Glad I've been saying Denoo correctly. that is also a distinctive name.

Kathy, there is nothing wrong, and often a lot of good, in discretion. It gives a place to express what we need to express, and otherwise could not.
it helps us feel more safe.

I hope Im wrong about Pat, and he resurfaces.
i really liked him too.
Comment by k.h. ky 7 hours ago
I really liked Pat. He was close to the area I live in and very funny.
Comment by k.h. ky 7 hours ago
Daniel that's good to know. The only reason I don't publish my name is family and the area I live in. I often say things about the place I live and family members that they would find hurtful.
Comment by Joan Denoo 7 hours ago

Daniel, you made the only choice that made sense when you worked. A new leaf has turned and I am happy to read your full name. "wokenhime" That is distinctive enough and easy to pronounce, especially having those clues. 

Facebook lists two:

Daniel Wachenheim
and 
Daniel Wachenheim
Lanoka Harbor, New Jersey
By the way, Denoo rhymes with   the new'  with the accent on the second syllable. 
Comment by Daniel Wachenheim 7 hours ago
Joan, I'm really glad your procedure went so well. They are usually routine with quick results, but everyone is different. As it turned out, that's awesome.

Im going to assume we've lost Pat. He never had such a long dry spell. There was no indication that he was unhappy with Nexus. He was an older gentleman with heart disease and diabetes. Im grateful he was here. He was a good guy. If I'm wrong, that would be a happy thing.

I never knew Pat's last name. If we knew that, we could at least check for an obit, and have some closure.

Regardless of that, Thank you Pat for being here.

Partly for that reason, and for sveral other readons, and after some internal debate, I'm going "Full Monte" with my screen name again. I hesitated because I truly value privacy, and a less than 100% open screen name, meant I could be open and not self censor here. The old screen name helped me feel a litle safer about career risks, but that's done too. A new leaf requires turning. So be it.

The pronunciation of the first part rhymes with "Wok" and the last part rhymes with "time".
Comment by Joan Denoo 8 hours ago
Comment by Idaho Spud 13 hours ago

"Good, or bad, the not knowing drives me nuts, ruins my sleep, & I can't think of anything else other than something is wrong."

I can relate Qiana.  I'm the same.  I would tell my doctor how it affects me, and ask him to PLEASE let me know without a waiting period.

 

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