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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jan 31. 66 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

Tags: Lesbian, agnostic, gay, atheist, TheraminTrees

If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

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Comment by Joan Denoo 7 hours ago

Ruth, let's think of the option of: 

1. The Histrionic Voice of screaming, yelling calling names, making up outrageous stories, belittleing, using all forms of hysteria in making our claims; or 

2. The Passionate Voice of defining, describing, explaining, illustrating, specifying in a calm, clear, passionate, confident, competent voice, while looking them in the eye, so they know to whom we speak, and speaking loudly enough for all to hear, even the little ones, or; 

3. The Authoritarian Voice with demanding they listen and change. 

If we get as histrionic as they using a histrionic voice, what have we gained? What have we lost? 

What about the passionate voice?

What about the authoritarian voice?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 7 hours ago

Your Crazyhorse article on the Overton Window is correct, but I think far too "rational", in the sense of avoiding passion.

The way ideas are shifted within the Window is via discussion and discourse.  The more something is proposed, talked about, discussed, debated, and presented the more likely it is to be shifted from one end of the spectrum to the other.

It's as if "We on the Left tamp down the fringe within our various movements out of fear that Progressives as a whole will be painted as "loonies." is self-referential for the article's style. The right wing doesn't just use noise and shouting, they employ a vast army of professional propagandists. Tools such as hatred and insanity are wielded like scalpels and jackhammers on the public's grey matter. While we on the left use proposals, talk, discussion and debate to try and present ideas, they use psychic bulldozers to multiply humanity's basest impulses. That makes me angry, but I don't hear anger or outrage in the article. We need to communicate our outrage at being played, at being used, at being warped.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 7 hours ago

Right On! Ian. I had to look up Man Ray. The Salvador Dali panel gave me a laugh.

Comment by Ian Mason 9 hours ago

Comment by Randall Smith 16 hours ago

How about ol' Bernie?!!  I guess I'm not the only one that senses something wrong with Hillary. Disingenuous?

How you doing, Carl?

Comment by Grinning Cat yesterday

Randall, hopefully you'll meet someone who's both!

Comment by The Flying Atheist yesterday

That's great, Kathy!

Comment by Randall Smith yesterday
I don't know which would surprise me more, meeting a nice woman (to date) or a fellow atheist!
Comment by k.h. ky on Tuesday
I met a live atheist today. A very nice young man, that I became acquainted with here, on atheist nexus. He also lives in this small area and told me to stop by and say hello if I saw his business vehicle at one of the stores he serves around here.
It was a pleasure to meet him.
Comment by Joan Denoo on Tuesday

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