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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Friday. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

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10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 21. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

Tags: prayer, Donald Trump, Oval Office, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist 38 minutes ago

Chris (Plinius), I've had two minor strokes.  I'm so lucky that I've had no residual mental or physical damage.  Unfortunately, the odds of having additional strokes increases every time you suffer a stroke.  I can honestly say that my biggest health fear at this time is having another stroke that will take away or diminish some of my motor or mental skills.  Currently my blood pressure is fantastic due to medications. 

As was stated in the video, surgeries like that help further our medical knowledge to help people in the future.  Folks like your brother-in-law and his friends would benefit.  We can only hope our species' ignorance will not win the time race against our ability to apply our phenomenal medical and scientific advancements. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist 58 minutes ago

Chris (Napa), I'm not sure about other countries, but I know Ireland passed legislation in the past year or two that makes organ donation the default for its citizens.  You have the choice to opt out.  This will make a huge, positive impact for those waiting for lifesaving organs.  I wish that was the law here as well.  If it was, I imagine it would be left up to individual states.  I can't imagine something like that passing on a federal level.  Idiots here complain about the fed mandating the coverage of birth control.

I was previously on kidney dialysis.  Luckily it was only for nine months in 2015.  It's a very time-consuming process that zaps all energy from you.  I was equally lucky to have a sister offer me a kidney that was a match. 

Comment by Plinius 5 hours ago

Thanks for the video, Carl! I think it's great when one's speciality is saved this way! When I visit my brother-in-law I see him and his companions - all with brain damage  - struggling with their handicaps; blindness, aphasia, motor disabilities or simply an IQ that has plummeted. It makes me aware every time how precious our brains are..

Comment by Thomas Murray 16 hours ago

Chris,

Maybe you got a straddled at DMV with a

Kim Davis fan?

Comment by Chris 16 hours ago

I have one of those grabbers. I find a foot stool for getting things out of the cabinets in the kitchen easier to use.  With the foot stool I can see what's up there.  I suppose it depends upon how one arranges the items in the cabinets.  A two,  https://www.amazon.com/Restonc-Portable-Capacity-Platform-Lightweig...

or  three step folding ladder with a rail 

https://www.amazon.com/Hailo-4342-001-Safety-330-Pound-Capacity/dp/...

works better than the foot stool, or grabber.

Comment by Chris 16 hours ago

The Flying Atheist,

I have a friend with renal failure because of diabetes. He goes through dialysis three times a week and is in the process of applying for a kidney transplant.  He's in the later stages of the application and seems to be close to needing a matching donor. 

Don't you think that opting out of being a donor should be the standard, rather than opting in? 

When I applied for my drivers license in Oregon I filled out the form to be an organ donor.  When my drivers license arived donor wasn't marked.  Fortunately I lived in a small town so when I went back to the Department of Motor Vehicals the same clerk was there.  I complained to her - She said "I didn't think you were serious."  That pissed me off. I don't know what kind of kookie religous sect she belonged to that must think someone has to be burried with all their organs, or why she thought  I as an adult was undable to make that descision on my own.  I made them issue a new drivers license. I should have complained up the chain of command.

Comment by Chris 17 hours ago

Consious sedation is often used - especially for brain surgery.  The brain has no feeling.   Music one likes helps distract from the procedure.  I read that music a patient enjoys also helps aleviate pain.

Some music results in discomfort....

Neat link about global fires.

(http://fires.globalforestwatch.org/home/)

Comment by Idaho Spud 19 hours ago

A recomendation to anyone wanting a new grabber like Thomas suggested, I've had quite a few, from $1 ones to a $20 one.  They all either didn't work right or broke easily excep the $20 one from Home Depot.  It's great.  Found it in the gardenting tool section.

Comment by Thomas Murray 19 hours ago

The couple of surgeries I experienced I was awake. However, prior to surgery the doctor gave me 10 mg Valium. It was lovely after that.

Patricia,

Do you have one of these?

  I use one to pick up things from the floor. I think Ben Franklin invented this so he can reach for books on the top shelves.

Comment by Ian Mason 19 hours ago

One bonus, Patricia: some studies recommend that post-surgery patients eat a diet high in calories. Yes, all the ice cream you want. Cakes too.

 

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