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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Discussion Forum

Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky on Saturday. 20 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 11 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 21. 24 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Aug 14. 91 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Wedding Haka - Subtitled & translated

Started by Joan Denoo Aug 13. 0 Replies

I ran across a video of a wedding in which a group of wedding guests celebrated with a performance of a traditional Māori ancestral war dance, called a Haka. It was intended for sons, however, the women have joined in a participation of…Continue

Tags: new, traditions., women, men, Haka

Onward (Unpaid) Christian Soldiers (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 13. 1 Reply

Proselytizing in the military is a dirty little secret most radical christians would rather didn't get out.  Well, never let it be said that America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, was ever a wallflower where a pit bull was needed!  In the following…Continue

Tags: Military Religious Freedom Foundation, MRFF, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Grinning Cat 3 hours ago

Joan, glad to hear that you (and others here) are doing OK!

I too tend to march to a different accordion...

(photo from Wikipedia)

Comment by Idaho Spud yesterday

Carl, I probably mentioned this before, but a few years ago, I decided to not be a coward and watch when I was given a shot or blood was drawn.  I noticed that the prick registered in my brain as a little stronger when I watched, but I still watch because it's still only a slight prick.

I had one nurse that amazed me because her shot didn't even register as a prick.  She said it's because she took her time to find the exact location of the vein so she could push the needle in rapidly.  That made the pain lower or nonexistent.

On both my colonoscopies, I wanted to watch the monitor.  They let me on the first one, although I didn't see much because I was out most of the time.  The monitor was pointed away from me the second time.  I asked if I could get a video of the procedure, and they said no.  I think they said they didn't make videos.  Perhaps they didn't want complainers or hypochondriacs bugging them about some things they saw.

Comment by Idaho Spud yesterday

Is that why I'm so forgetful?  Could be part of it, but in my case, the inability to concentrate is the main problem.  Too many things distract me.

Comment by Ian Mason yesterday

Glad to hear that you're all well. I haven't been around this week because I've been on courses and come home with a head full.

I've been the odd one in my family too. I read books instead of watching TV.

Forgetful?

Comment by Plinius yesterday

I know that strategy, Carl, it's a good one!

Comment by Plinius yesterday

Glad your surgery went so well, Joan! And great that it helps!

Good for you, Randall, with your running success! I'm a bit jealous, now that I can't even run to catch a bus.

Comment by The Flying Atheist yesterday

Kathy, you can be any part of the family here that feels right for you.  We embrace you with open arms. 

I was always the "odd" one in my family.  I still am. Not for being an atheist, but for my particular sense of humor and my likes and dislikes.  I've always marched proudly to the beat of a different drummer and pursued my interests all the while exhibiting a seemingly conventional appearance.  Still waters run deep, as they say.

Comment by The Flying Atheist yesterday

Ruth, my best regards to your husband.  Glad to hear he's doing well.  I'm continually amazed hearing about so many people having major surgeries who mend and recuperate so well afterward.  It seems we are living in a time of unprecedented accelerations in medical advancements just within the past ten to fifteen years.

Comment by k.h. ky yesterday
Ruth, you got it. Glad your husband is doing well.

Joan, it was meant as a joke. An atheist in a fundie family, in the bible belt, is by default a problem child. Different from the rest. Odd is the word.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday

Congrats on the run, Randall. It’s a relief you’re OK.

Congrats on successful carpel tunnel surgery on your left hand, Joan. I hope my memory stays as sharp as yours. I constantly forget the names of characters and actors on TV. Being considered a matriarch is an honor.

k.h. ky, you made me laugh. You want to be the AN problem child? You realize we’re all the ones who couldn’t fit into fundie families here, right?

Sorry I haven't been around much. My husband got his left shoulder replaced about 10 days ago, and I've been busy. He's doing great.

 

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