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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on January 17, 2013 at 5:20pm

Comment by Steph S. on January 17, 2013 at 5:18pm

Cool that you met Moon Zappa sk8eycat - how awesome. I know that song you are talking about.

Comment by Steph S. on January 17, 2013 at 5:17pm

Cute loldog booklover. Very funny.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 17, 2013 at 4:49pm

Ahhhh, yessss.  The way I heard it was, "...cats have staff."

I have taken care of lots of different breeds of dogs in my life as a pet-sitter, and the ones I like best are the large breeds...Samoyeds, shepherds, weimaraners, Sibeians.  THEY aren't as worshipful as cocker spaniels and other medium-to-small breeds. 

I find being worshipped very distasteful, and that was one of many things that solidified my lack of faith.

I just kept wondering how there could be a being/creature, with the intelligence and power to create an entire universe, who wanted to be worshipped. Gag me with a spoon!

Felaine, the genuine (old) Valley Girl  (I met Moon Zappa when I was working in a small electronics store back in the 1980s.  She was a hoot!)

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 17, 2013 at 2:39am

It has to be more than 65 years ago I sat in a theater and saw films of out expected future, with cars flying between sky scrapers, and huge highways carrying vast numbers of people to and from their activities, robots doing the work that humans were doing, and all kinds of gadgets would be made available to make life easier for everyone.
WW II had just ended, we still were on sugar and fat rations, and we still were trying to repair our home that burned during the war. Our bathroom and kitchen fixtures were old beat up pieces of pot-metal plumbing but that was all we could get at that time. It took a couple more years before we could replace the electrical and plumbing with fixtures with new modern ones. We had a washer with a wringer on it and there was no such thing as a dryer. 
I remember watching the film thinking that with all those modern conveniences like a washer and dryer and dishwasher and vacuum and new tools shown for carpenters and plumbers and electricians it seemed that everyone could just sit ... we didn't even have TV in those days. The vision was that all the work would be done, toil of trade labor and homemaking left a lot of time for pleasure in the new cars and toys that would be coming onto the market. Ronald Reagan was beginning to plug electric appliances of every kind and we all wanted everything. 
The movie didn't tell that robots would replace workers on the assembly line, thus reducing the need for human labor. Machines would do the work of keeping inventory and checking out at the grocery story and a lot of them had to be laid off. Cheap clothes started coming into stores and dressmakers were no long needed. Manufacture of shoes went overseas and shops closed their doors. Fast foods came along and many mom and pop restaurants closed down. One by one, the commerce of our nation changed, the main streets changed, beautiful old commercial buildings were torn down and monstrous bank building grew to change our skyline. 
That was the end of the "ball bearing era" and the beginning of a new technological era.
Today, we are at the end of an era and I don't know what to call it, and going into a new age with computers, world-wide trade, opening opportunities for those who are prepared, and closing doors on many of the old ways of making a living. Kind of like the end of the horse and buggy era when we needed black smiths, and an ice man. 
When my mother was a little girl, my father was her family's ice man in a little farming town. No electricity, outdoor plumbing, no phones, few cars, the "Green Hornet" bus took us from Tekoa to Spokane, or we took the train. Both are gone now. The first airplane came through doing stunts.
What is the name of the new era? What will our coming generations do for a living? How will we find work for all the unemployed workers? How will our graduating college kids find work? How will we take care of our children and elderly? With all these questions, that implies opportunities for innovation. Are we prepared for that?
  

Comment by Steph S. on January 17, 2013 at 12:39am
Wow - I'm like 3 pages behind. I love all the pictures and life stories. I'll come back here and post more. It's past my bed time.
Have a wonderful day!
Comment by Joan Denoo on January 17, 2013 at 12:31am

Loca the Pug singing 'The pug that couldn't run'

"I'm bouncing, flouncing, falling all around the show..."

Loca, the pug that couldn't run.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 16, 2013 at 11:22pm

That's a hilarious video, sk8eycat.  The dog just sits there and watches.  He's probably thinking, "There's no reason for me to get up.  That crazy rabbit is doing all the work.  I'll just relax a bit." 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 16, 2013 at 11:13pm

Thanks for sharing so much of your personal life, sk8eycat.

And that's a great kitty gif, Patricia. Well worth sharing.

Have a good night, everyone.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 16, 2013 at 9:51pm

Ooooooh, Patricia!  I feel better already!

Joseph, it's not the whole world that is sick...it's the USA that needs a high colonic every time the fundies get one of their buybull-based restrictions added to the law books.  They THINK that the stiff-necked, bigoted puritans who settled Massachusetts in the 17th century were the people who wrote the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution.  They know NOTHING about what happened on this continent between 1620 and 1776. And anyone who thinks the buybull is a history book will believe anything.  No wonder we call a congregation a "flock."  They'll let anybody herd them.

http://www.dogwork.com/buhr9

(You kind of have to wait for the video to load, but it's worth it.)

 

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