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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller 3 hours ago. 21 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Fan.tasia – A Disney Mashup by Lindsey McCutcheon

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud on Monday. 8 Replies

Any of you remember that Hollywood musical dance number mashup that Nerd Fest UK created put together some months back?  Well, someone by the name of Lindsey McCutcheon has…Continue

Tags: Lindsey McCutcheon, animation, Disney

The Gun Industry's Killing in Killing (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Jul 20. 15 Replies

America's Best Christian has finally acknowledged that there may be one outfit which has her belief system beat for it's leverage on the government.  No great surprise, it's the NRA and the gun industries.  Betty's a good loser, though.  She's made…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

The God of Cancer (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 18. 10 Replies

Seth Andrews has been through the mill as it comes to dealing with those who insist that their faith in a deity is not just valid but necessary to their lives and to all lives.  Having dealt with that gauntlet and come out the other side an atheist,…Continue

Tags: cancer, god, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

We Are America / Love Has No Labels (John Cena - Ad Council)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 10. 3 Replies

It seems to be a repeating pattern: I wander around the internet and inevitably, I stumble onto all manner of stuff.  It happens all the time on YouTube, and as you doubtless have deduced, yours truly tripped over something a couple minutes ago,…Continue

Tags: patriotism, labels, love, Ad Council, John Cena

In God We Trust? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Jul 4. 4 Replies

HEY, gang!  Your favorite America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers is BACK and just in time for the Fourth of July!!!  This time, she's hit it big, coming to us live and in color from the Capitol!  Seems as though she's as upset about this whole "In…Continue

Tags: congress, god, Jesus, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by tom sarbeck on April 28, 2013 at 10:02pm

Brandi, booklover and others,

"...about her atheist friend with the bisexual daughter...."

Those of us who are straight or gay might forget, bisexual folk are twice as likely as any of us to find someone to take home.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 28, 2013 at 9:54pm

Lillie:

"It is so funny the way our pets let us know it is not OK to leave them...."

How they welcome us back is also funny, and sometimes wet.

On my way to work one day I left our (he was my wife's too) German shepherd pup at the vet. That afternoon he welcomed me by leaping from the vet's arms onto me and peeing.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 28, 2013 at 9:22pm

Felaine, I have a gay friend I've known for over thirty years who is an ordained minister for the Metropolitan Community Church.  Like most other religious people I'm sure he must cherry-pick the good from the bad parts from the bible.  It doesn't matter if a person is gay or straight, they all must utilize the same type of mental gymnastics to avoid excessive cognitive dissonance. 

Religious behavior is hard to change.  Years ago there weren't any churches that were openly welcoming to gays, so they said, "F.U." and started their own.  I really can't blame them.  I'm gay and grew up in a very liberal, progressive, gay friendly church.  There weren't any horrible fire and brimstone sermons condemning who I was.  The issue of homosexuality isn't what drove me away from religion.  It was just stepping back, looking hard, and realizing that EVERYTHING was a huge load of dung. 

If church attendance is declining overall, I'm sure it is for the gay Metropolitan Community Church as well. 

Comment by Megan S. M. on April 28, 2013 at 9:18pm

Haha Steph I love the coffee cat :) so cute

Comment by sk8eycat on April 28, 2013 at 8:28pm

Debra, I don't understand why any lgbt people still believe that book of myths that says there's a creator who made them, but hates them.  Not only do they attend services, they want to be priests, pastors, ministers in the very churches whose book of rules says they must be stoned to death.

They even founded their own church in 1968, and it's definitely xian protestant: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metropolitan_Community_Church

The anonymous authors of the novel called the New Testament did have the Jesus character saying that he came to uphold ALL the old laws which did include the death penalty for same sex sex. (There is no historical evidence for the events or persons in the gospels...except for the names of kings and other high officials.  Not even any evidence that "Paul" wrote Acts or any of the epistles.)

Comment by Steph S. on April 28, 2013 at 8:11pm

Comment by sk8eycat on April 28, 2013 at 7:05pm

Steph, I love the photo & caption.

I used to get that behavior when I would go cat-or-dog-sitting.  Especially from Mr. T. Devil; he would greet me at the door and then totally ignore me for 2 or 3 days.  That was when both my parents wre still alive and well but aging rapidly, and my sister is always here, so he was never left totally alone.  He was Dad's buddy, anyway; they used to sit in the recliner together and watch the news.  (Dad was a news junkie.)
 
I don't know why, but I mentioned it in a letter to Ginny Heinlein (Felaine! Name-dropping!  BAAAAD!) when we were exchanging examples of cat behavior, and she said he probably smelled the other animals on me, my clothes, my luggage.  So I tried washing everything and taking a shower as soon as I could after I got home.  Helped a little.  (At least The Devil never learned how to mark things the way intact tomcats do. *whew!*)
 
Melinda, I have dumped "friends" who annoyed me far less than Ms. "Tolerant/Intolerant" annoys you.  Her remarks about Catholocism sound like a much more complex (and boring) version of "Some of my best friends are (Jewish, black, Latino, gay, etc.)"   And you know damn well the only "friend" in one of those categories is maybe the woman who cleans her house once a week, or the guy who parks her car...  Do you ever wonder if Ms. Tolerance tells other people that "One of my best friends is an atheist"? 
I learned a long time ago that one way to find out who your real friends are is to tell them you're an atheist.  I once announced it to an entire office because everything (it seemed) in the garment district where we worked was closed on Good Friday/Passover. I saw one dropped jaw, and heard the 3 young men in my dept. laughing their butts off.  I loved them for that.
 
About my friend who gets annoyed whenever I say something about the incestuous relationship between our government and radical xians...maybe she finds that subject boring??????????  Or maybe she finds ME boring?  OMNerves!  I hope not!  She really is a good friend in all other ways.
 
Comment by Lillie on April 28, 2013 at 2:34pm

It is so funny the way our pets let us know it is not OK to leave them.  They may not speak our language but they can certainly let us know how they are feeling by their actions.  We are going on a short trip next week and I know we will get the temporary cold shoulder when we return.  Of course, a neighbor will keep them fed with a friendly pat on the head but apparently that is not the same.

Comment by Steph S. on April 28, 2013 at 2:06pm

Comment by Plinius on April 28, 2013 at 1:48pm

Thanks Flying Atheist, and a good weekend to all of you. I could even work in my veg roof garden today, at last it's turning green!

 

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