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Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for women, native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?

Started by Joan Denoo 12 hours ago. 0 Replies

Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?On blacks:"We think they are not, and that they are not included, and were not intended to be included…. They…Continue

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Your favorite photobombs?

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Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

Men who challenge men to stop violence

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Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

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Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 19. 8 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

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Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 2:49am

Joan, I'm committed to questioning authority, in this case Daniel Dennetts'  “There’s simply no polite way to tell people they’ve dedicated their lives to an illusion.”

He knows no polite way and is denying responsibility for his lack of knowledge.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 2:36am

The Well of Lonliness is one of the most depressing books I've ever read...try ANYTHING by Rita Mae Brown.  Rita WILL is her autobiography.

Venus Envy is a hilarious and touching novel about a woman in her 30s who has been told she has incurable cancer, so she writes letters to family and friends, telling them exactly what she thinks of them, AND that she's gay.  Then the doctor discovers her records have been mixed up with another patient's, and that she only is suffering from extreme stress and bronchitis.  The rest of the book is the aftermath.

Six of One, Loose Lips, and Bingo are also funny, touching, and semi- autobiographical about a small town that straddles the Mason Dixon Line, and begins with her own mother's 5th or 6th birthday.  Bingo is fairly close to the present...late 1980s, IIRC.

The mystery series she's co-written with her cat, Sneaky Pie start out pretty good, but the later books kind of got on my left nerve.  Too much churchy stuff, or something. Maybe it's because the original Sneaky Pie died about 10 years ago, and she's now collaborating with Sneaky Pie II.  But you will learn a lot about small-town Virginia, and Virginia attitudes in general. No gay characters that I can recall, but the animals have dialogue that the humans can't understand, and that is fun.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 1:03am

Re "I don't know good authors regarding LGBT":

If you include lesbian fiction, check out Radclyffe Hall's Well of Loneliness.

Published ~1930.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2013 at 1:01am

Tom, 

male sparrow has black throat and mask

http://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/house_sparrow/id

female has brown throat and breast.

http://www.allaboutbirds.org/guide/house_sparrow/id

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 12:59am

For folks who like to look at space pix: check out NASA's daily pic at

http://apod.nasa.gov/apod/

I open Firefox and get a new pic every day.

The Archive at the bottom of the page might still have links to pix back to 1995.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 12:47am

Carl, and you know  me...it was more like footlights coming on slowly, till they lit up the whole arena. THEN I felt something like a 200 lb bag of religious manure falling off my shoulders, and I realized I could fly. Well, it was more like zooming to center ice doing a fancy stop, and taking a bow....all within one heartbeat.

Comment by tom sarbeck on April 30, 2013 at 12:40am

The indeed priceless bird pic several pages back?

Are we sure it's not a female bird stopping male left brain talk?

Comment by Plinius on April 30, 2013 at 12:33am

Your family sound wonderful, Carl, what a great place to grow up in! I remember that I stayed as close as possible to what I felt was right for me, without letting it show - just grow up and get out. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 12:25am
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 30, 2013 at 12:21am

Carl, that is a wonderful story about "The Bear" Is it available to see on the internet, or Netiflix. I just marvelled at how they got those wonderful shots, certainly not an easy task to do that clip ... the whole film must be quite inspiring. Hopefully, people will go with cameras instead of guns to get their shots. 

 

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