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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris 21 hours ago. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 29, 2013 at 11:29pm

sk8eycat, you know me, it was like a string of flashing multi-colored christmas lights.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 29, 2013 at 11:25pm

Flying A, isn't it a great feeling when that mental "lightbulb" suddenly flashes on? (I wonder if it's incandescant, or one of those twisty energy savers...heeee-heee!)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 29, 2013 at 11:18pm

Patricia, I loved the animals video you posted. 

Joan, the bear video was also riveting.  That's a video clip from an actual movie, "L'Ours" (The Bear) from 1988.  I just added it to my Netiflix cue.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bear_%281988_film%29

Melinda, you'll be glad to know that, according to Wikipedia, no animals were harmed in the making of that film!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 29, 2013 at 11:13pm

This one is as good as the male bird holding the female bird's beak shut.

Comment by Steph S. on April 29, 2013 at 11:00pm

Thank you Joan very much for the posts.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 29, 2013 at 10:53pm

What a lively, thoughtful conversation today. Thanks.

Joan I liked Dennett's “the self as a “center of narrative gravity”.

My head has been stuck on what's happening in the Arctic. I posted about it in Eco-Logical.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 29, 2013 at 10:46pm

Awe shucks, Joan.  You make me blush with your compliments. I can't imagine, though, what "so many insights" I've offered you from my sporadic postings.  But, thank you.  I value your posts and participation here as well......very much so.  :) 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 29, 2013 at 10:41pm

Magical ice caves in Skaftafeli - Iceland!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 29, 2013 at 10:39pm

Beach at Jökulsárlón glacial lagoon in Iceland , during sunrise  https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=480504815300765&set=a.4....

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 29, 2013 at 10:31pm

Brandi, I agree that control plays a huge part in all this. I can remember thinking, "How am I supposed to do this ...?" And when the shift occurred, it was more like, "Here is the problem as I understand it; what are my options? What has the highest probability of getting what I need or want? Taking action and paying attention to the consequences. With this way of thinking, I feel strong, competent, have self-respect, and don't have to look to others for affirmation. 

Carl has provided me with so many insights over the months and is a real treasure of a friend. Thanks Carl. 

 

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