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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 8:41pm

Felaine, thanks for the links to the tracts.  I should order some and pass them out on my way to work to the leaches who stand at the train station passing out "The Watchtower" magazine and their tracts.   

Regarding the Orange County story, it makes my blood boil every time I hear stories about religious groups wanting to pass out bibles at schools.  These religious people are as disgusting and pervasive as a roach infestation.  At least the FFRF is countering the attack with our own literature. 

Still.....I can't believe that the school district censored some of our material.  How to fix the problem:  keep the schools as an environment for learning (not religious recruiting) and the whole problem is solved. 

Why do we have to keep fighting these battles and putting out these continuous fires?  It's like a christian version of Whack-A-Mole.  I just want to pull my hair out.     

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 7:49pm

Carl, you can get packets of "non-tracts" to hand out to the doorbell-ringers from  They are $4 per dozen, or a sample pack of one each for the same price, and you don't have to be a member.

One of  my faves is "Cookie-Cutter Christs," a collection of short descriptions of earlier god-myths that are almost identical to the stories in the gospels.

And this is an interesting news item that I just received:

I hope they open up some minds and/or encourage kids who are closeted non-believers to hang onto their disbelief in the buybull belt.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 30, 2013 at 7:32pm

Grinning Cat, a long time ago, when I first went online, I got in touch with a sweet couple who owned a catnip plantation (Catnip Cafe) on the Fraser River, just outside of Vancouver, B.C.  In addition to selling baggies of catnip for cats, they carried a  line of catnip teas for humans, and catnip-laced chocolates.  Verrrrry tasty!  But, a couple of years after I "met" them, they sold the business, and moved into town to raise children. 

*sigh* I really wanted to take the train to Seattle, and then transfer to Vancouver, and meet set of parents owned a cozy-looking B&B in the area, too.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 30, 2013 at 5:34pm

It didn't take me long to realize that one of my self-satisfying labels to the no religion sign would be taken by the religious as an excuse to ring the bell, because they obviously were not crazy, deluded or preaching BS.

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 5:03pm

Booklover I love that dog and cat pic.

How is everyone?

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 5:01pm

I hope the sign works Flying Atheist.

I love the cartoon Ian.

Grinning Cat - I really like that LOLcat.

Comment by Steph S. on April 30, 2013 at 5:00pm

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 30, 2013 at 3:52pm

I saved your NOthump sign Flying A.  I may put one on my door.  

I've even been considering labeling it with "NO thumping", or "NO Wakaloons", or "NO crazy people", or "NO fairy stories", or NO reality challenged proselytizers".  But you mentioned bullshit, so I'm thinking a good label would be "NO BS" or "NO BULLSHIT".

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 30, 2013 at 2:51pm

I know damn well that I don't have to listen to door-to-door proselytizers or take any of their literature.  I totally resent that fact that they are intruding into my personal time and space with their insane bullshit while I'm eating, napping, doing chores, watching a movie, or just chilling around the house in any degree of dress or undress.  And I very sternly tell them so.  The only times I say anything more is if there are any young adults with them......high school or college age.  I'll address them and tell them not to believe the lies they're being told, to think for themselves and to use the internet to look at videos on  And I'll say, "Remember that!  The Thinking Atheist dot com!"     

Comment by Ian Mason on April 30, 2013 at 1:08pm

I thought this touched a nerve.


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