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Comment by Idaho Spud on April 7, 2014 at 5:12pm

I'm often sad thinking of the children in my siblings families and their children's children.  They all continue to drink the mormon cook-aid in great quantities, wasting a lot of time as well as more than 10% of their gross income.

The worst family is my son-in-law's.  They are almost as bad as the Duggar family.  

They have religious pictures almost covering their walls, the children are restricted from playing with anyone except a very few that are as fundamentalist as they are, they are home-schooled, TV shows and movies are restricted to a very few G-rated ones, and they are taught to be greatly paranoid about sex.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 7, 2014 at 4:42pm

Felaine, I've never heard of the Duggar family cult before.  The way those children are raised is very sad.

Comment by sk8eycat on April 7, 2014 at 3:43pm

I read something the other day about the Duggar family cult (Gothardism, or something); it's much worse than I ever imagined.  They might as well put both the girls and the boys in burkas for the rest of their lives....

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolongerquivering/2012/02/carefully-sc...

I feel profoundly sorry for those children.

Comment by Arp on April 7, 2014 at 12:14pm

Ian, it's not weird. It's perfectly sensible if you believe (as Sam Harris says, truly believe) in documents such as Bible, Qur'an etc.

Comment by Ian Mason on April 7, 2014 at 12:04pm

Agreed, Carl. We can hope that religious intitutions become more and more peripheral to real life.

There was a great fuss in Denmark recently when a Muslim examiner wouldn't shake hands with women examinees. What most Danes don't realise is that about one third of male priests in the Danish "Folkekirke" don't agree with the ordination of women and won't shake hands with their female colleagues. Weird, the lot of them.

Comment by Arp on April 7, 2014 at 11:42am

"Let the church keep marginalizing their women.  Hopefully this will give women the incentive to just give up on the whole institution all together. "

These are my thoughts too. In fact, I sometimes wonder why on earth are theist women theists? Can't they see the discrimination against them? Its a different thing for oppressed women (such as Muslim women in the Middle East), who have no other option but to be believers.

I'm talking about women who voluntarily follow certain religions. All major religions (Islam, Christianity, Hinduism) are discriminatory against women.

Comment by Plinius on April 7, 2014 at 11:25am

One of the small protestant churches here believes that women should shut up, that women are unfit to be leaders and they want to take away the right to vote from us. I'd think like Carl, it's an incentive to leave the church - but there is a group of women who stay in that church and try to get human rights. Very strange!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 7, 2014 at 10:52am

Arp, I tend to agree with your point of view.  Let the church keep marginalizing their women.  Hopefully this will give women the incentive to just give up on the whole institution all together.  Although I know that can be difficult road to follow, it's time for them to break the cycle of ignorance and submission. 

At some point, the mormon church will start to become much like what is happening in the catholic church;  the internal structure weakens and it has less control over its members, resulting in a loss of adherents.   

My favorite "schadenfreude" moments would be to watch these types of organizations collapse onto themselves from within.   

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 7, 2014 at 10:36am

Loren, I'm jealous of you!  What more can I say?  I hope you have a great time!

Comment by Arp on April 7, 2014 at 10:24am

Joan, it is not a new thing that religions are sexist.

However, I don't really care much about women not given the opportunity to be priest at the age of 12 years since I don't perceive priesthood as something good. I think of priesthood as stupidity.

But, please don't think of me as sexist or something. I'm for equality on all grounds whether it is sex, colour or anything. I want equality. I want justice.

So, in my opinion nobody (boy or girl) should be allowed to be priest at any age. We don't need priests. Religions need to be eradicated as soon as possible.

 

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