Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by k.h. ky on May 10, 2014 at 10:00am

Bear with me I've gotta brag..My third grade g-daughter took first place in the county wide math competition.  She out scored almost  two hundred other third graders to do it.

Way to go baby girl!!!!!!!!

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 10, 2014 at 9:23am

Patricia, I like the "SIT" pic.

And Joan, I'm with you.  I might like a dog if I could get a bird to train it for me.  And are those cute things otters?

Sorry for the bad day you peeps have had.

Ruth, sorry for your frustration with Blue Shield.  They sound like a horrible company.  Their actions or inactions would make me very angry and depressed.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 10, 2014 at 4:02am

Thanks for all the great pics (and unusual music). Just the stuff to come home to after a night's work. Warmth and good cheer :-)

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 10, 2014 at 1:06am

Hugs to each one having stress in our lives. A virtual cuddle, a soothing expression of care, and an experience of gratitude for friendship across the miles can ease the feelings.

Looking at Earth through the lens of Cassini doesn't relieve the pain and frustration of living; it makes it more important that feelings of strength, power, competence and agency replace helplessness, anger, fear and hopelessness.  

Chaos of modern life can be challenged with a determination to experience beauty, comfort and serenity, especially as we express our deepest frustration at incompetence.


Comment by Plinius on May 10, 2014 at 12:29am

A good song, FA, thanks! No migraine, so I got up early and will do a lot of work today. Have a nice weekend, everybody!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 9, 2014 at 11:25pm

I hope everyone has a good weekend and that next week will be better than the last. 

Comment by sk8eycat on May 9, 2014 at 9:27pm

Joan, I've wanted to be a Red Hat Lady for years; they seem to have so much jolly fun!

Comment by Grinning Cat on May 9, 2014 at 9:15pm

Ruth, I'm sorry to hear about the insurance bureaucracy driving you to frustration! (And you're exactly right that the right wing, which is against government bureaucracy, is just fine with it as long as it's in the private sector of health care profit-as-usual.)

On a different, lighter note: Massachusetts' reminder of the law, in a Boston accent, to drivers who don't signal lane changes:

Electronic roadway sign: USE YAH BLINKAH(story and video from a Boston news station)

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 9, 2014 at 7:03pm

Patricia, I might enjoy a dog if I thought I could have a bird train it for me. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 9, 2014 at 6:06pm

Carl, love your coffee, collection and cat! It is a keeper! 


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