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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith 14 hours ago. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 11, 2014 at 11:08am

Mindy, I had to ask permission from present owners of the homes my grandparents lived in to get root cuttings or seeds, starts of one kind or another. Could you get some starts by going to your grandparents' former homes and asking for permission? Everyone seemed very willing and even happy to share. One family even let me dig up some bulbs. 

I just figured out that Laura's Generations Garden involves seven generations. That is some kind of dynasty! 

I should have brought back root stock from the ancestor's places I visited in Plymouth Massachusets and England. What a heritage that would be. 

Mindy, your second comment 9 minutes ago did not come through. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 11, 2014 at 9:26am

Peonies evoke memories of my grandmothers' gardens. When driving through the Palouse in Whitman County, there are many abandoned farms, with houses caved in, gardens gone to weeds and always, there are peonies and iris growing lushly. They survive heat and cold, wet and dry, wind and stagnant air. 

Laura has a "generations garden" at their place in the forest. It has plants from her great-great grandparents, grandparents, and from my garden. Her grandchildren live in a house on the same property.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 11, 2014 at 2:16am

Peonies remind me of my childhood home.  My mother had them planted in the back yard garden.  Her peonies and irises were always my favorite. 

Chris, I'm glad to hear that all your hard work will be coming to an end soon.  Yes, you deserve a long rest and your "me time" back. 

Comment by Ian Mason on June 11, 2014 at 1:32am

Your well-earned rest is in sight. Very glad to read that, Chris.

That's a fun (dog-head) photo, Joan. Stealing.

Comment by Plinius on June 11, 2014 at 1:22am

Thank you, Joan, it's lovely! I put it on my desktop, so it will make me smile for many days! I'm doing the last lessons of the season, only a summer course goes on till the end of July. And we hope to move brother-in-law somewhere in the next month. The stuff is almost packed and we've put away an enormous load of rubbish since January. We're really looking forward to the end of this project - there are caretakers that need info,furniture to be bought and assembled, moving and unpacking everything, the unfriendly cat to be taken care of, the old apartment must be sold - after that I'm going to sleep for a month.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 10, 2014 at 11:12pm

Plinius, I've been thinking about you today, hoping your days bring some pleasure and peace. Here is just a little blossom to let you know you are on my mind. 

This peony blossom came from a root I dug out of my grandmother Laura Howe Whitehead's garden. It blooms so beautifully every year. 

Comment by Plinius on June 10, 2014 at 11:06am

A beautiful one, Joan!

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 10, 2014 at 9:09am

Mind bending optical illusion. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 10, 2014 at 9:07am

Felaine, thank you for the link to Lake Hypatia and the memorial to Atheists in Foxholes. 

If you have a MacBook, I can walk you through the process for photos. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 10, 2014 at 8:53am

Ruth, I used the Roman Catholic version of Cyril because the church honored him with sainthood even as he incited hated within the church over doctrine that resulted in the butchering of Hypatia.

We already know that the RCC rewards those who raise money even as he or she exploits the poor and manipulates the wealthy.  


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