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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee yesterday. 3 Replies

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The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 16, 2014 at 4:53am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 16, 2014 at 4:46am

Chris, there's an old saying, "Good fences make good neighbors."  I sure agree with that.  Humans are very territorial.  The picture you posted is a common sight in big cities.  Having a little niche fenced off like the one in your photo is practically like owning sacred ground. 

I like the private and hidden aspect of your apartment door.  That would suit me just fine. 

Comment by Plinius on August 16, 2014 at 1:26am

Wonderful view, Felaine! And I mustn't think like a Dutch who'd put up fences and hedges and gates to keep private and common apart. The way we live is quite different! This is not where I live, but close by. My apartment is invisible from the street and you can only reach it through three doors and a lift, after a long search you'll find an unmarked door with a spyhole. Privacy, and I feel comfortable with it. Perhaps I am Dutch...

Comment by sk8eycat on August 15, 2014 at 9:46pm

OMG!   I hated Florida!  We played Miami Beach and Tampa....both so humid that there would be 3 ft of fog on the ice when we went out for the opening number.  And in Tampa we had to check our boots for palmetto bugs and other ickies before we put our skates on.

But the worst was playing outdoor arenas (fairgrounds) in the Midwest.  Huge flocks of June bugs and other uglies would fly into the overhead lights and die....on the ice.  We had to keep on smiling and skating.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 15, 2014 at 9:44pm

Chicago used to be similar to Rome.  "All roads lead to Rome."  At the heyday of rail travel, all railroads led to Chicago.  To this day, still, Illinois has the highest number of deaths by trains because of all the ground-level grade crossings - another result of our flat landscape.     

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 15, 2014 at 9:38pm

The Flattest U.S. States? Not What You Think.

Kansas is not the flattest state, despite common perceptions.

National Geographic

Illinois comes in at the number 2 spot right behind Florida for the top two flattest states.  Kansas is seventh flattest. 

Comment by sk8eycat on August 15, 2014 at 9:34pm

All I remember about Green Bay is that it was effing windy and COLD.  We always played there just before our December 10-day hiatus.

We changed trains in Chicago a lot, and the railyards were so peaceful-looking when covered with snow. 

Comment by sk8eycat on August 15, 2014 at 9:29pm

I've always wanted to take the Canadian traiins from Vancouver to Nova Scotia, and Amtrak from New England along the Atlantic coast, and then back west via New Orleans to LA.....but Texas, parts of New Mexico and Arizona are (to me) too bleak and flat.

I have relatives in Winslow, AZ, and a 3 day visit is about all I can take in that town.  It's on a high plateau, about 4500 ft, but FLAT.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 15, 2014 at 9:19pm

Great photos, Felaine.  That's one thing I love about traveling, being able to regularly visit and see landscapes that are vastly different from the flat prairies of Illinois.  Every type of terrain is beautiful in its own respect, and natural prairies are filled with wonderful types of grasses and wildflowers.  Chicago is in a great location on the shores of picturesque Lake Michigan, but I've always loved seeing mountainous terrain.

We don't have mountains here.  We don't even have rolling hills.  About the best we can do are our ridges.  These are the long stretches of sloped ground common in this area where the edge of ancient glaciers sat that formed the five "Great Lakes."

Comment by k.h. ky on August 15, 2014 at 9:12pm
Lovely neighborhood Sk8eycat. It certainly did change as things in life tend to do. I think l would be tempted to post a sign for people to pick up after their dogs and leave the damned fruit alone.
Although it probably wouldn'tdo much ggood.

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