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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 7 hours ago. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on August 19, 2014 at 3:23pm

Carl, sorry for your kidney disease!

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 19, 2014 at 3:22pm

Mindy, I've had lots of acid reflux most of my life, so when I went in for an upper-endoscopy, I thought they would find something, maybe even cancer, but they found nothing wrong.  Hope the same for you.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 19, 2014 at 1:56pm

Happy birthday to your husband, Mindy.  Has your daughter's school started classes yet?  I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow.  

I was in Walgreen's the other day and the aisle with the school supplies was filled with excited kids picking our their notebooks, etc.  They were very cute.  When you're young, those things are so important.

On a personal note, I saw a kidney specialist yesterday and was diagnosed with stage three chronic kidney disease.  So.......I'm on some medications with terrible side effects that I'm dealing with.  My condition is under control for now and I will have to monitor myself closely for blood pressure and salt intake.  I'm actually unable to work at this time. 

Randy, I hope you enjoy the time with your grandson.  It was always fun to go to my grandmother's house and play with toys that were my father's when he was young. 

Comment by Randall Smith on August 19, 2014 at 7:27am

Oops, "He wanted..."

Comment by Randall Smith on August 19, 2014 at 7:26am

Joan, you have quite a family! I was surprised to get a phone call this morning from my near 5 yr old grandson. I wanted to spend overnight with me. I said "you bet". While rummaging through the attic the other day, I came across some toys belonging to my son. They'll be something new for my grandson (and me!) to play with.

Comment by Plinius on August 19, 2014 at 4:03am

I can't understand why nobody orders a good independent investigation into the death of Michael Brown. Of course the police won't like that, but they're there to protect and serve, not for anything else.

Comment by Brent Feeney on August 18, 2014 at 11:42am

I has been scary out here Mindy, and it's getting worse after it seeming was getting better. Gov. Jay Nixon has now called out the National Guard and Amnesty International is sending a team to monitor the situation.

Of course, the fact that AI is making their way here has many of The Usual Supsects heading into a tizzy, among other things.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 18, 2014 at 11:01am

Now, a moment to brag about my newest great-grandchild, Brooklyn. She is a lovely baby, very sweet tempered, chubby as can be, cried very little even as she has a hearty sound indicating she has a need. 

Laurie, my granddaughter, is an outstanding mother, very loving and attentive. She enjoys their baby very much. 

Zac, Brooklyn's daddy, gently takes care of all her needs from feeding to cleaning her. He holds her so gently and quietly talks to her. He seems to enjoy fathering. The look on his face as he cuddles her is almost mystically loving. I can't say enough good about Zac, he is so kind and thoughtful, he is a hard worker and has initiative. They are living with Laura and Larry just now and he finds things to repair or to create for them. He is building a terraced garden for Laura, cutting down the trees, preparing them for the use in the terraces, and builds them so strong, it would take something very unusual to damage them. Right now the dogs love to jump from layer to layer, leaving behind deep holes where their feet dig in for a gigantic leap. The training has started to get the dogs off of the future garden. 

One of my great pleasures while with them this weekend, was just watching the three of them interact. Sweet memories to take along with me in my twilight years.   

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 18, 2014 at 10:12am

Michelle and her partner have five children between them, Michelle with two boys and her partner with two boys and one girl, ranging in ages from 15 to 4. Their birthdays go all through the year so Michelle decided to have one birthday party with families from both sides invited to celebrate. Winters can be dreadful driving in those northern forests, and some family members live some distance. 

It was so much fun, with games, and contests, lots of ages, and personalities mixing together with dogs, cats and kittens running wildly through the legs and under seats. Laura and Larry gave me their bedroom and they slept in their travel trailer. 

Late in the afternoon, while sitting on the porch, I fell asleep. Laura gently wakened me and I went to bed for the night. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 18, 2014 at 10:05am

The highway to Laura's home, near Newport, WA, goes through the area that was terribly damaged in three wind storms. I attended a birthday party at Laura's this weekend and the trailer park looks like a war zone. Trees broken off at 20 to 50 feet above ground, trailers, autos and sheds smashed, debris mostly cleaned up so one can see the physical impacts more clearly than when the trees were still down with all their limbs hiding the damage. All along the highway for probably 10 miles each way are broken trees in the forests along the highway. 

When I worked at boys' ranches, several of my boys' families lived in that trailer park. They were poor working class people, who faced many challenges. I feel for the families trying to recover from such losses. 

 

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