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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François on Wednesday. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François on Tuesday. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

Tags: Atheist Pig

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 21, 2014 at 11:05am

Ian, love your report of your trip to England. Great fun, interesting, and varied. You do squeeze a lot into your time England. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 21, 2014 at 11:03am

Carl, I am so happy to learn the panic attacks have subsided. Knowing why you have been feeling the symptoms you had helps. It is not good news that there is no cure. A new normal sounds in order. You are so positive, and have so many mental resources, you will get through whatever lies ahead. 

Oh yes! the big 5 0 ! Half a century! Now you are an official elder ... at least in the tribal terms of life. Next milestone at 75 will call for a big celebration. 

For me, it was hitting 60. I had a huge party with all my friends and family. We had such a good time I really enjoyed the day. One of my birthday parties, I can't remember which, my granddaughter, Michelle, looked at me with amazement at whatever the number was. I felt so gleeful, she was impressed! It isn't often a grandchild makes one feel exceptional. They bring me joy, and excitement, but usually I don't feel exceptional. That boosted my emotions to a new high. 

I know the feeling, don't leave my comfort zone for anything but the necessities. It does feel good to just relax, take it easy, let others do their thing, be content just enjoying each new sunrise and sunset, happy to be alive and very happy to lie down to rest. 

Do take good care of yourself, dear friend. One day at a time, sometimes just getting through the hour, and getting over each challenge, is a victory.

I like your new avatar! Very handsome! And I like thinking of you as a mature man with a few miles on your odometer. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 21, 2014 at 10:49am

Mindy, good news so far and I expect you will handle whatever news comes along in the future. We are a resilient lot! In the meantime, choose joy! 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 21, 2014 at 9:07am

Mindy, glad to hear your good news.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 21, 2014 at 8:53am

Thanks, Randy, I was a little stunned myself! 

I love the phrase "geewillikers."  Little Jimmy from The Cinnamon Bear radio serial in the 1930's used that expression.  Any of you (if you'll pardon the expression) old-timers remember Jimmy & Judy searching for the silver star for the top of their christmas tree?  That was always a perennial favorite to listen to during December.  

Comment by Randall Smith on August 21, 2014 at 7:43am

Geewillikers, I take a day off from the computer (with grandson), and I miss all sorts of news--good and bad.

Carl, your kidney situation stunned me. Goodness, I hope you can return to some sense of normalcy in the coming weeks. 

Hang in there, Mindy. Try not to worry or think about any prognosis.

Ian, I'm envious!

Comment by Ian Mason on August 21, 2014 at 3:34am

I have returned! Been on a lovely visit to England. Had a smashing time with some of the family, eating, drinking lots of tea and relaxing. Also managed to squeeze in 2 art exhibitions, 1 Shakespeare play and 1 prom concert. It don't get much better.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 20, 2014 at 7:28pm

That's good news, Mindy.  Sorry you have to have all this back-N-forth to Madison, but I guess it is worth it. 

BTW, I was thinking......next time you use your health as an excuse to get out of a family function, call me.  I will do the same and we can get together for a movie night.  lol

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 20, 2014 at 10:35am

Well, despite my vow to embrace turning 50 years old last month, it has hit me like a ton of bricks.  lol    While recuperating, I have only been leaving the house to get food and supplies or to keep my numerous doctor's appointments.  Yesterday, I went to the eye doctor.  I'll be wearing glasses full-time now to correct vision problems I've been having.  No big deal, though.  I'm kind of looking forward to getting them in two weeks.  I'll be able to read books again!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 20, 2014 at 10:17am

Thanks, everyone, for all your words of support.  It means a lot to me.  I know I can come here and find a receptive ear when needed. 

Joan, my panic attacks seem to be under control now that my kidneys are stabilized.  I'm definitely feeling calmer and more at ease.  Knowing what the problem is and having it taken care of is half the battle, physically and mentally. 

 

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