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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Thomas Murray on Saturday. 5 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Thomas Murray on Friday. 4 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Friday. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

Tags: prayer, Donald Trump, Oval Office, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

Tags: Japanese Idol, Babymetal

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 11. 30 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 11. 16 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 28, 2014 at 4:01pm

Booklover - so glad to hear that you got good news!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 28, 2014 at 3:36pm
Wonderful news, Mindy! Yay! Hugs.
Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 3:33pm

Mindy: cheers and applause!

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 28, 2014 at 3:22pm

Glad to hear there was no cancer!!

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 28, 2014 at 3:14pm

Glad to hear that Mindy.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 28, 2014 at 1:54pm

Joan, I usually ride on the road with my recumbent trike for several reasons.  One, there's less snow and ice on the road.  Two, the road is less bumpy than the sidewalks.  

Three, when riding on the sidewalk, I don't like stopping at each intersection, and waiting for all traffic to disappear before I go again.  When riding on the road, I actually feel safer, because cars can see me better.

My ride to work was uphill but was at 6AM, so not much traffic.  My ride home was downhill, so I could keep up with traffic, and rode fully in the roadway just like a car.  Again, I was more visible that way.  I increase my visibility by having a multicolored twirling windsock type of thing on a pole.

My trike does well on ice as long as I didn't push too hard, and it does well with snow, which is usually less than an inch.

With a trike, the 3 wheels means you won't fall over if you slip on ice or snow (or gravel).  

I've only fallen over twice.  Both times were when I was learning and turned corners too sharp and fast.  It happened on dry pavement when there was enough friction to keep my tires from skidding.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 28, 2014 at 7:40am

GC - you reminded me of Woody Allen's crack that if there is a god, he must be an underachiever.

Comment by Plinius on August 28, 2014 at 7:14am

It's our BS-detector, Randall.  "innocent" also irritates me - should I be overjoyed when someone dies who is not innocent? Innocent of what?

Comment by Randall Smith on August 28, 2014 at 6:55am

When I read or hear about "innocent" people being killed (or whatever), I often transfer my sad feelings to a rationalized expression of "See--what kind of god would allow such a thing to happen? Ha. Showed you." I'm not proud of feeling that way, but it helps deaden the sadness.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2014 at 1:25am

Here's another fun song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9bMi4s_yOE&list=PL4F31A2E482D6...

I found a whole slew of Atheist songs on YouTube...don't know why I never looked for any till tonight.
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Grinner, I am SO Mac illiterate that I don't know how to do anything but look at my own ugly face on the screen, and click icons just to see what happens. 

I NEED to learn to use that Mac because this Dell is 10 years old, slowing down, and crashes or freezes at least 4 times a day.  I actually do two small jobs via the net...I don't get paid for them, but it's something to keep me busy for one week a month.

I'm effing BORED!
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When everyone was talking about swearing, I realized that I don't "swear" at all, I just cuss (use dirty words).  I'll say "ohhhhhh sh*t" and the F-word occasionally, but my hyper-religious sister is the one who says "godammit" when she drops a spoon or something equally trivial. I think Homer Simpson is her role model since she has Asperger's Syndrome, and doesn't really understand how real humans behave.  She will be 70 in November....

 

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