Hang With Friends

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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Saturday. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 25, 2017 at 7:47pm

Joan, thanks for posting Eva Cassidy's rendition of Fields of Gold.  Beautifully sung!

Joan, with that post and with Randy's description below of farm duties in Autumntime, you both provoke lovely images of the season.


Comment by Joan Denoo on September 25, 2017 at 6:47pm

Eva Cassidy - Fields of Gold

Eva's life, cut short by that demon, cancer, sings these words that move me to sweet memories of a lost loved one. 

Comment by Thomas Murray on September 25, 2017 at 4:01pm


That church you went to sounds like a Universal Church.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 25, 2017 at 12:27pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 25, 2017 at 12:22pm

Ian, thanks for posting such a beautiful song.  I'm reminded of another excellent song, "Autumn in New York."

These two versions are so wonderful, I had to post both.  


Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 25, 2017 at 12:10pm

An interesting experience, Plinius.  Yes, all of the church "teachings" are basic human courtesies we learn as children.  Church for these folks is probably just for self-validation and for the community.   

Comment by Plinius on September 25, 2017 at 11:51am

Yesterday I was in a church for the first time in many years, because I wanted to hear the transgender choir they had invited. Luca sings in the choir now - different popsongs etc. so the members can exercise their changing voices. 

It wasn't a fundie church at all, on the contrary, they were welcoming all sorts of people without judging them, and they had planned this special service in the Rotterdam gay pride weekend.

The church service struck me as strange; everyone was encouraged to be kind to other people, and not to judge them because god is the one who judges. Rather sweet. And all the time I was thinking why people must be encouraged to be kind - they could figure that out themselves I should think. The sermon was a strange lesson; do the right thing and god will smile. Very weak, I felt. Doing the right thing is its own reward, but that wasn't said because then it's too obvious that nobody needs a god.

The church members were very sweet and ready to put the lesson into practice during the coffee break, the chosen recipients of the kindness  were the choir members - but most of the church people had no idea what transgender is. So we reversed roles and told them a bit.  

Very sweet people, and within half an hour we saw that the church members were lonely people, held together by a few strong women who mothered them. It felt like a day care centre for elderly people. So we said goodbye with smiles and kind words, but I won't go back there before I need a day care centre...

Comment by Randall Smith on September 25, 2017 at 7:05am

With 5 consecutive days 90 degrees and higher, autumn has been delayed around here, leaf color wise.
But farmers are busy combining soybeans. Corn will soon follow. That leaves a dusty haze in the atmosphere, making for gorgeous sunrises and sets.

Great song and artist, Ian. Thanks for posting it.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 24, 2017 at 11:59pm

Nat King Cole sings 'Autumn leaves'

Comment by Plinius on September 24, 2017 at 11:59pm

a beauty, Ian!


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