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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on January 21, 2018 at 11:00am

That has been a bad road for you two and you're very brave, Kathy, staying in reality and not fleeing into hopelessness or whatever. Moving seems a good choice - I don't know how far you are from a town of course, but it often helps to get more contacts. When your home becomes unmanageable it's a good time to get packing. Have you got someone to help you? 

Comment by kathy: ky on January 21, 2018 at 10:33am

I'm coping the best I can.  He was diagnosed with liver cancer in April I believe. We were going to Vanderbilt but it was so advanced by the time it was found that little could be done. He had one Y-90 therapy  that had no effect other than to make him very sick. The Dr's tried to talk him into regular chemo but all they could promise was that it would make him even more sick. We discussed it and he declined further treatment. There was just to much cancer spread to far with to many complications.  From the time of diagnosis they predicted six months to a year. He lived seven months. 

We were together thirty years. Like all marriages there were good times and bad. Times we could have walked away or cheerfully killed each other but we stayed together. I don't know how to go forward from here. I'm just trying to find my way. Find a new normal. This stinking weather isn't helping any. And it's isolating. I'm going to have to sale this place and find something smaller in town that I can manage. 

Comment by Randall Smith on January 21, 2018 at 7:21am

Joan had a birthday? Missed that. Happy belated, Joan!

I may miss a few more tidbits in the next 2 weeks, as I'll be in Mexico Beach, Florida, basking in the sunshine. Yahoo! Talk to you when I return. (I leave all computer stuff at home.)

Comment by Plinius on January 21, 2018 at 4:33am

Kathy, if you want to whine you need a different approach - I'm sorry that you didn't mention the death of your partner earlier - we would have tried to lighten your load. How are you now? Did you have to do a lot of reorganizing? Can you cope?

Sending hugs.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 21, 2018 at 1:38am

kathy: ky, you describe your experience with trusted friends; that is not whining! My heart goes out to you and wish I could give you a warm hug and sit with you a while. Our friendship is a "virtual" one, however, it is as real as if we were sitting together sharing our good times and our bad. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 20, 2018 at 10:59pm

Sorry to hear about your husband, kathy: ky

I'm tired of Winter too. My sister has an extraordinarily steep unpaved drive, I appreciate how difficult that can be. Thanks for sharing that you're going through "the worst six months of my life followed by the worst winter on record." We're always interested and care. That's not whining. Sharing your experiences with friends is a strength. You deserve to be heard.
Comment by Patricia on January 20, 2018 at 9:30pm

Never got that impression, Kathy.

Comment by kathy: ky on January 20, 2018 at 9:27pm

I apologize to everyone. I've just had the worst six months of my life followed by the worst winter on record. I didn't mean to sound like I was whining. 

Comment by Plinius on January 20, 2018 at 2:17pm

Congratulations, Joan!

Comment by Patricia on January 20, 2018 at 1:03pm

Have a great day, Joan!

 

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