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Canada Not a Loud Nation

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Comment by Idaho Spud on November 16, 2018 at 6:11pm

Plinius, no, I don't have to close one eye.  My brain switches automatically and I don't even notice.

Joan, I only have one pair of reading glasses now.  There is more clarity in the distance eye, but it's not due to the new lenses.  I can detect to problem with depth perception.  It must be that a blurry image doesn't affect it much.  It may affect it some, but it's not noticeably worse than before.

After hearing my good results, my sister had the same thing done, but didn't have as good a result.  She's not as pleased as I am.  Don't remember exactly what displeased her, if she even told me.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2018 at 2:29pm

Spud, that is remarkable that your brain does the selection as to which eye to focus! Do you notice a change when you look for near to far? Do you carry two pairs of glasses when you go away from home? Is there more clarity in one eye than the other? What about eye strain, or brain-strain? Are you limited in the amount of time you can use you eyes? 

I assume, because each eye is focused at a different distance, you do not have binocular vision? or do you? What do you do for depth perception? Doesn't it take both eyes focused on an object to see that?

Comment by Plinius on November 16, 2018 at 2:01pm

Very special, that you can switch for different distances! But your eyes won't work together so well, I think. Do you have to close the other eye when you're focussing?

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 16, 2018 at 12:22pm

Plinius, my eyesight is good now.  

By age 60, my nearsightedness was so bad, I could only see clearly at things 4 inches from my eyes, without glasses.

My ability to focus from near to far was so bad I had to carry around 4 pair of glasses to see well at different distances.

I got tired of that, so had artificial lenses put in my eyes.  The one in the left eye lets me see clearly at 2 feet.  The one in the right eye lets me see clearly from 8 feet to infinity.  Between them both, I can see reasonably well from 1 foot to infinity.

I now only need glasses for reading fine print, but wear my reading glasses when on the computer.  It's better that way.

I'm pleased with how my brain can switch from left eye to right & back depending on the distance I want to see something, and I have no trouble with depth perception.

I would like to still be able to see at 4 inches without a magnifying glass, but you can't have everything :)

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 16, 2018 at 2:53am

Glad you're enjoying your hearing aid, Plinius. Interesting story, Idaho Spud.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2018 at 1:57am

Chris, teaching a few more years means more people will have the experience of an excellent and caring instructor. I'm happy to learn about your new ability to hear. You describe your event in suggestive ways; I can imagine your eyes sparkling with each pleasant sound. I hope it is an enjoyable experience for you as you get used to them. 

Spud, I enjoyed your story of seeing clearly for the first time. 

Thankfully, we live in a time with technology improving our lives. 

Randy, some subscriptions are "money down a hole." From my perspective, if this site can't support itself and fails, each month I have with you dear friends has value. 

Comment by Plinius on November 15, 2018 at 11:51pm

Thanks! I'm in the trial and adjustment time, but I think it's going to be a success. And I can go on teaching a few years more!

How's your eyesight now, Spud?

Comment by Patricia on November 15, 2018 at 1:04pm

Rick went through a few adjustments with his to have the sounds comfortable. He's fine with them now. You'll appreciate sound more now, Plinius….congrats.

Comment by Plinius on November 15, 2018 at 1:00pm

Thanks! It's quite shocking, really. I knew my hearing problems but only today realized how serious they are and how many years they've played a part in my life. I was well on the way to live in silence and I'm happy with the hearing aids.

Comment by Ian Mason on November 15, 2018 at 12:51pm

Congratulations on the new, improved hearing Chris. Friends who use hearing aids say that the sounds can be overwhelming at first.

I've been using reading glasses for the past 18 years. Anything closer that arms length is a blur.


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