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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Evangelicals Breaking Up with Jesus (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 28. 10 Replies

Has evangelical Christianity lost sight of Christ?  Seems to me that there are a whole lot of evangelical Christians who are presuming to represent Jesus by not representing him or misrepresenting him or – let's be honest here – talking out of their…Continue

Tags: Franklin, Graham, Trump, Jesus, America's Best Christian

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck May 27. 15 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 24. 21 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Water! Access to fresh water declines as populations grow, temperatures rise, immigration increases!

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Bobby May 15. 7 Replies

What are their options? The aquifer that provided a necessary element for successful crops for the past 100 years is predicted to dry up in 20 years. Four generations of farmers in one family may probably not be able to last for the fifth…Continue

Web slang

Started by Roswatheist. Last reply by The Shinedowness Apr 11. 119 Replies

Is it me, or can most people on social networking sites not spell? I get acronyms, but actual misspelling, really? I'm not that old, either-not even thirty.Does this make anyone else crazy or is it just me?Continue

Kitbull | Pixar SparkShorts

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Feb 23. 10 Replies

The following showed up this morning in my YouTube daily feed, and I have to say, it just charmed the socks off of me.  This is what animation really can do in the hands of a creative and skilled team.  Really, it's what animation has done for darn…Continue

Tags: Kitbull, Pixar, Disney

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Comment by Tom Sarbeck on May 18, 2019 at 5:54pm

Joan, radical religionists benefit by creating breaks in family relationships.

In plainer words, the people who rule those religions benefit.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 18, 2019 at 1:27pm

Randy, you speak wisely, even as letting go of family members brings sorrow. Plinius helped me understand with her story and she made it easier to know what is, is. I have hope for you and your grandchildren as they mature. 

Your situation reflects one of the errors of radical religion, of creating breaks in family relationships. No one benefits by such divisions. 

Some people don't like the idea of revenge; I think it is a perfectly rational position if used for positive purposes, i.e. the best revenge is to live a happy, contented life even as some of the ones you love judge you because of your lack of belief in a higher power.  

That is a ridiculous position. 

Comment by Plinius on May 18, 2019 at 10:15am

I hope you win some, Randall. It's hard when family members can't/won't behave like family - but at some point you have to let go. I did that with my brothers, and I'm ok with that decision, but it remains a sore spot...

Comment by Randall Smith on May 18, 2019 at 7:18am

Thanks for the responses to my comment.

You win some, you lose some. Two of my four adult children are quite religious--my Honduran daughter to the point of believing the literal reading of the Bible, i.e., Adam and Eve, etc.,--certainly not evolution. I can hardly stand it. She's so smart (optometrist), but has been brainwashed by her mother and husband. The kids have followed suit. They know I'm a non-believer, hence a contribution to the "strain".

But mostly, it's just that we have lived apart for nearly 20 years, seeing each other only once a year (alternate visitations). The kids don't even know what to call me. I've done everything I can to establish a relationship. Perhaps they'll "see the light" when they get older--if I'm still alive.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 17, 2019 at 11:38pm

Randy, You said you haven't seen much of the Honduras grandkids and the atmosphere at dinner was "strained." I am very sorry to learn that is happening for you and your family. Does religion play a part in the stress? I wonder how your grandkids think about the attitudes and beliefs of their parents? Have you been able to talk to the kids privately? I forget, how old are they?

I wasn't able to bond with Craig's two boys and treasure the relationships with my great-grandchildren even though three of them are Michell's partner's children. I think of all five as of my blood. 

I would like to offer you some things to try, but I have not solved the situation in my relationships. When you have some breakthroughs, I hope you share them with me. 

Comment by Patricia on May 17, 2019 at 6:43pm

Hi Kathy. So good to ''see'' you.

Comment by kathy: ky on May 17, 2019 at 6:41pm

Teens.  Throw my hands up. 

Hi Chris,  Patricia,  Spud.  Everyone. 

Comment by kathy: ky on May 17, 2019 at 6:38pm

Hi Randy.  Yes they keep me busy.  I can't believe they are 14 and 16! They were more fun when they were small ;) Both are on the dance team now.  Still making all A's. I don't think I could do without them close to me.  I suppose it's what we get used to. 

Comment by Patricia on May 17, 2019 at 12:38pm

That's sad, Randy.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 17, 2019 at 10:37am

I like that Snoopy cartoon, loren.

 

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