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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Michael Penn Aug 16. 8 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Steven Weinberg on his anti-theism

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Aug 2. 4 Replies

I like the sound of Steven Weinberg's voice. He has a calming impact on me as I rush to get my home of 41 years ready to sell and plan and put into motion the new garden at my daughter's home. My home is full o empty boxed quickly filling with the…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Plinius on August 3, 2014 at 10:52am

Hi Frank, I'm Chris

Comment by Frank Gibson on August 3, 2014 at 8:53am
Hello all from 200 miles of the Louisiana Coast.
Comment by Plinius on August 3, 2014 at 8:12am

And good luck and much happiness to you and Dot, Randall!

Comment by Randall Smith on August 3, 2014 at 7:57am

Felaine, I'd be on the lookout for "bad thing #3", as my grandmother's adage that "things happen in threes". Just kidding--I don't believe such things.

Well, I saved a dog from the animal shelter two days ago. It's a two yr old boxer-lab mix. She's (Dot) a strong, energetic, extremely friendly dog. I'm trying to get her used to her new surrounding, but on a leash for now. It is very therapeutic to have a quick replacement for Molly. Thanks again for all your kind words.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 3, 2014 at 3:40am

I have always tried to do business with independent neighborhood stores and services, partly because it's friendly, and partly because I detest chains.  (I would like to see Walmart and Walgreens go bankrupt  in some mighty catastrophe.)

I am old enough to remember when even grocery stores were mostly independent....now we have a choice of two...Von's, which is owned by Safeway; and Ralphs, which is part of the Kroger conglomerate.  Eff them both!

(Although Vons/Safeway began home delivery about 10 years ago; just about the time that I could no longer carry bags of groceries from my car into the house without excruciating pain.  I shop on line now, and they have electronic coupons, and other specials...fresh baked goods, etc.  I also buy a few things from Schwan's home delivery service now and then when they are on sale. And the drivers are nice.....) 

I sold my 1979 Pontiwreck 2 years ago.  Too big to park anywhere, and the upkeep was killing me.  (Have you noticed that parking spaces are skinnier than they used to be?  Gotta get more cars on all those acres of asphalt!)

Comment by Plinius on August 3, 2014 at 1:07am

I'm so glad about that neighbour helping you, sk8eycat! We need people like that!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 2, 2014 at 11:48pm

Sk8eycat, what a great neighbor you have.  How nice of him to reward you with his kindness and generosity.  From the stories you tell, you certainly can use a break like that.  I'm glad for you.  :) 

Yes, Mindy, I like the Philosophy/Religion quote as well. 

Comment by sk8eycat on August 2, 2014 at 11:19pm

The Kindness of Friends

Our A/C started quitting on us just as the weather got really nasty, and before I could do anything about it, our water heated died completely, and had to be replaced.

My sister finally called a neighbor who owns his own Heating & A/C business, and has for years (and we have always done business with him). He came over this morning and fixed things...the filter just needed cleaning (it's removable, he just takes it outside and hoses off the cat hair and dust, and then replaces it...I am not strong enough to remove the metal panel to get at the filter)., Then he gave the compressor a couple of blasts of freon....or whatever the coolant is.  And now it's running nicely, and I am no longer sweating.

When my sister started to write him a check, he just smiled, and said, "No charge."

I am flabbergasted.

I just wish the damn plumber was as understanding...he is not even giving me the advertized "Senior Discount" for the gahdam water heater.  And I had to borrow the money for the down payment on the thing before he would even let his men start work...

Two entirely different businessmen...I just wish I could find a different plumber.  This guy is an asshat, and I have paid him thousands of dollars over the past 10 years....never got the bloody discount.

Comment by k.h. ky on August 2, 2014 at 11:08pm
I like the puzzle.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 2, 2014 at 11:00pm

Your philosophy/religion quote is fantastic, booklover!

 

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