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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee on Saturday. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Oct 20. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 17. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 10, 2015 at 9:43pm

I don't think I have enough field mice that would support an owl family. The  good mousers moved away, but I notice a new cat has been coming around. Of course, I encourage them, even as I hate to have my little mouse family attacked. Mice can take down the sturdiest sunflower, corn stock or other plants so quickly. While I sick, it was fun to watch them. I don't think I will be so forgiving now that I am back on my feet. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 10, 2015 at 9:35pm

Ruth, I am so sorry you have these persistent health problems. You seem to be doing all the things possible as preventives. I assume your health care providers have the latest treatments protocols and you read up on all the information available.  

Just a little eye candy for you. 


Comment by sk8eycat on January 10, 2015 at 9:03pm

We just had an hour of light rain...just as the Vons/Safeway truck delivered our grocery order.  They've actually gone back to using brown paper bags; sturdy enough to stand up to a few sprinkles, and recyclable.

Ruth does hot, mulled apple juice or cranberry juice help any?  Just as a cold weather "comfort drink"?  Or tea with a cinnamon stick? 

Comment by k.h. ky on January 10, 2015 at 6:55pm
Ruth, just more joys of aging. Not. I've been staying in a lot. Our temps are like what Mindy just described. I keep repeating to myself 'it's only 60 short days'. It__being the worst part of winter.
Sometimes I actually believe it!
Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 10, 2015 at 2:57pm

Geez, Ruth.  What a bad spell you're having right now.  Sorry it has piled up on you all at once.  I hope you get some relief soon.

Are you also having below normal temps in PA? 

Comment by Plinius on January 10, 2015 at 1:31pm

I hope you feel better soon, Ruth!

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 10, 2015 at 12:26pm

Sorry you having such a hard time Ruth. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 10, 2015 at 12:21pm

Hi. Just yesterday on a nature program I learned that a pair of barn owls has to catch 8 voles a day to keep their babies alive, which adds up to 2,000 voles a year. No doubt they also catch lots of mice in that quota, Joan.

booklover, how about a picture of your daughter's winning snow sculpture. Woah! -7! Aagh.

Sorry I've been out of touch. During two weeks of bronchitis I was entirely sedentary. Also I couldn't face eating seafood. As soon as I'd mostly recovered from that, I got severe arthritis in my left hip. Hence I've not kept up with all of you. I'm eating wild salmon again, for my low inflammation diet, and back to exercising and stretching at the gym three days so far. Only marginal pain improvements so far. Hopefully after a few days it will ease up and I'll return to full functioning. The pain makes me brainless as well as making everyday stuff an order of magnitude harder. I'm not allowed to use NSAIDS or even drink alcohol, so no relief there. I've been using a lidoderm patch after the gym, and resting a lot on my side.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 10, 2015 at 10:56am

Patricia, very cute owl.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 10, 2015 at 10:23am

Mindy, I heard this morning that Rockford is getting ready for a big snow and ice sculpture festival this week.  It sure is cold enough!

Stay warm everyone.   


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