Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Discussion Forum

Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Wednesday. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by Randall Smith on March 25, 2016 at 8:00am

Thanks, Chris. So sad to hear about James' death. So many A/N members "disappear", and it makes one wonder how many actually die without anyone knowing about it. I mean, if I were to "pass on" (ugh-- I dislike that phrase), who in Nexus land would get the message? Is there a way that I don't know about?

By the way, thanks for the birthday wishes.

Comment by Plinius on March 25, 2016 at 4:33am

Message from Patricia:

Just to let you know that James M. Martin from A/N died in December after a short illness.

From J.W. Gaston--------------

Thank you for the kind lines about James M. Martin.  Mr. Martin's personal and literary works are archived in the University of Southern California library system.  As you know, he posted on numerous websites, and he was enormously erudite.  If you are members of any other web lists, especially Face Book, to which Mr. Martin also belonged, please be so kind as to alert the other web-list members who might be unaware of Mr. Martin's death, since I do not belong to other lists.  Mr. Martin was my best friend for 54 years and four-months.  I miss him very day of my life.  He was the only person in my life with whom I could discuss the technical effects of pointillism or impasto; the relation of the Italian Renaissance painters, Giotto and Fra Angelico, to the Paris modernists of the '20; the cinematography of S.M. Eisenstein to that of the French New Wave film-makers; the poetic style of the Symbolists writers to mid-century modernism; or the comparison of Max Reinhardt's production designs to those of Diaghilev's Ballets Russes.  I cannot tell you the loss I feel at his passing.  Mr. Martin died after a short illness, but in his last year of life, 2015,he completed almost all the goals and projects he had set for himself.  Only his three-act play and a film scenario were left un-revised. Sadly, he died 18-days before his announced retirement.  

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 24, 2016 at 4:02pm

LOL on free hugs, Ian.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 24, 2016 at 1:40pm

Happy Birthday, Randall. Have a great day.

Comment by Donald L. Engel on March 24, 2016 at 11:58am

Happy birthday, Randy.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 24, 2016 at 8:17am

Happy Birthday, Randy! I hope you get some nice spring weather to help you celebrate. Apricots, fresh off the tree, makes a splendid treat. Let's hope no late spring frosts interfere with their growth. 

Comment by Randall Smith on March 24, 2016 at 7:44am

Spring here usually arrives right around my birthday (today, as a matter of fact). My apricot trees are in full pink bloom. Maybe, for once, I'll have some.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 23, 2016 at 3:38pm

I couldn't resist this.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 23, 2016 at 3:37pm

The Nederlands are far enough south of DK to make a difference. Usually about 3 weeks.

Comment by Plinius on March 23, 2016 at 2:32pm

Such a difference, Ian? Here the willows are tuening green.


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