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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 1, 2016 at 9:52pm

Hmmm - the link works fine for me on Windows 10 and Chrome. You could go to YouTube and search for Steve Wynn - God Doesn't Like It.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 1, 2016 at 8:24pm

Great theme song for Christians:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHs7Vq_JpFY

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 1, 2016 at 7:02pm

Joan, I also missed the news -- glad to read that you're happy, back in your own home!

Qiana, that picture looks very much like a melding of the FSM, a longhaired Ceiling Cat, and Yoda! Maybe they're all aspects of the same being. :)

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 1, 2016 at 6:35pm

Carl, I am very excited to read your update and the things you can do now. If you like to write, or if research brings you pleasure, being retired opens up golden opportunities, or if you like tying fishing flies, or making bamboo furniture or talking with friends, you are now free!

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 1, 2016 at 5:58pm

Randy, I agree, stay in my home as long as I am able. I was happy at Laura's and being with all the children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren on Laura's branch of my offsprings. They were very kind and loving to me and watched over because of all the animals on the acrage and the wild things that come and remind us they were there first. 
I was very sick when I went there and weak. I felt vulnerable and helpless. As I tended to the chores of family life in the country, I regained my strength, health, and stamina, I lost my sense of helplessness. Coming home is what I need to do. I miss each family member and Fire District 8 members who drop in, and the lovely neighbors who also enjoy country life. The animals were a special treat for me and I miss the dogs, cats, and chickens. I even miss the ceyotes that howl through the night. Of course I miss the greenhouse and I am happy to say that we harvested all the vegetables that survived the Newport area freezes and I planted every growing big with spring vegetables. The ediple pod peas were so good, as was the lettuce and spinach. The onions hadn't matured when I left and the tomatoes and peppers looked healthy. 

The family assured me I was welcome back and they seemed happy when I told them I wouldn't bring back all those bookcases and books. They are not interested in the books, but they jumped at the chance to get extra shelves for arts and crafts. Craig will get my library, which is about as fine an applied social and psychological reference source one can find in Spokane. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 1, 2016 at 4:45pm

Randy, thanks for inquiring about me.  You didn't miss any updates while you were in Greece.  During that time A|N was experiencing many outages, so there wasn't much to miss.  Glad you had good travels with your daughter.

Not much has changed with me.  I'm attending physical therapy twice per week and it definitely is helping to strengthen my legs.  Of course with my condition the goal is only to maintain strength, not to bulk up my muscles, as over exercising is counter productive and could excel any muscle deterioration. 

At this point, I'm basically retired and adjusting to a new lifestyle.  Overall, life is good.  Perhaps I could work in some capacity in the future, but for now my life as been in so much transition and adjustment that I wouldn't be able to commit to steady employment - at least not at this time.

My parents are in the process of getting ready to move from their home into a two bedroom apartment in a retirement community.  My three siblings and I recently got together for one week to help them sort through all their (many!) possessions.  This gave my parents the opportunity to give away certain items to each of us that they personally wanted us to have.  Additionally, we got to choose and acquire family items had special meaning to us.  The six of us had a rather fun time with lots of laughing. 

Comment by Randall Smith on June 1, 2016 at 6:53am

Yes, Joan, I too was surprised to hear you have moved back to Spokane. You sound happy and content. And I concur with Bertold.

Thoughts of moving occur to me every now and then. As long as I'm able, I'll stay where I am.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 1, 2016 at 1:27am

Oh! Bertold, what a nice sentiment to hear. Thank you. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 1, 2016 at 1:17am

And you're one of mine.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 1, 2016 at 1:08am

Krebs is one of my heroes. 

 

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