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Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Wednesday. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 11, 2016 at 1:12am

Kathy, I have AdBlocker installed, so no annoying ads for me.  That and the addition of Pop-Up Blocker makes my internet experience much more enjoyable.    

Ian, I like that cartoon.  That's the kind of "odd" humor I enjoy.

Randy, about one or two weeks ago I made a financial contribution to Bernie Sanders.  It's the first time EVER in my life I have financially supported a candidate in a presidential campaign.  I so want him to win, yet he is up against the moss-less rolling stone force that is Hillary Clinton.  I felt I needed to do my part.

I saw a neurologist the other day to look into the issue of my very weak legs and buckling knees.  I had a slew of blood tests done and also have two upcoming tests.  One is a standard MRI and the other is a EMG (Electromyography.)  Wikipedia: EMG  

The EMG sounds like Dr. Frankenstein's version of acupuncture.  A needle/probe inserted into the muscle followed by a small electrical shock.


Comment by kathy: ky on February 11, 2016 at 12:29am
Is anyone else getting the ads on the right with someone wanting to pray for us?? That is too funny.
Comment by Joan Denoo on February 10, 2016 at 4:53pm

Ruth, let's think of the option of: 

1. The Histrionic Voice of screaming, yelling calling names, making up outrageous stories, belittleing, using all forms of hysteria in making our claims; or 

2. The Passionate Voice of defining, describing, explaining, illustrating, specifying in a calm, clear, passionate, confident, competent voice, while looking them in the eye, so they know to whom we speak, and speaking loudly enough for all to hear, even the little ones, or; 

3. The Authoritarian Voice with demanding they listen and change. 

If we get as histrionic as they using a histrionic voice, what have we gained? What have we lost? 

What about the passionate voice?

What about the authoritarian voice?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 10, 2016 at 4:26pm

Your Crazyhorse article on the Overton Window is correct, but I think far too "rational", in the sense of avoiding passion.

The way ideas are shifted within the Window is via discussion and discourse.  The more something is proposed, talked about, discussed, debated, and presented the more likely it is to be shifted from one end of the spectrum to the other.

It's as if "We on the Left tamp down the fringe within our various movements out of fear that Progressives as a whole will be painted as "loonies." is self-referential for the article's style. The right wing doesn't just use noise and shouting, they employ a vast army of professional propagandists. Tools such as hatred and insanity are wielded like scalpels and jackhammers on the public's grey matter. While we on the left use proposals, talk, discussion and debate to try and present ideas, they use psychic bulldozers to multiply humanity's basest impulses. That makes me angry, but I don't hear anger or outrage in the article. We need to communicate our outrage at being played, at being used, at being warped.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 10, 2016 at 4:07pm

Right On! Ian. I had to look up Man Ray. The Salvador Dali panel gave me a laugh.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 10, 2016 at 2:16pm

Comment by Randall Smith on February 10, 2016 at 7:33am

How about ol' Bernie?!!  I guess I'm not the only one that senses something wrong with Hillary. Disingenuous?

How you doing, Carl?

Comment by Grinning Cat on February 9, 2016 at 10:37pm

Randall, hopefully you'll meet someone who's both!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 9, 2016 at 10:12pm

That's great, Kathy!

Comment by Randall Smith on February 9, 2016 at 7:44am
I don't know which would surprise me more, meeting a nice woman (to date) or a fellow atheist!

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