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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 4, 2015 at 12:00am

Patricia, these cartoons make me laugh! Especially "Buy-polar-disorder". 

Ian, an unusual perception of depression. Mindy's report of her daughter's struggles with it reveals how difficult it can be.

Felaine, your coping strategies seem to give you some comfort. At least, I hope so. Your horse story hit my funny bone. 

The author wrote, "Depression is an asshole, and it can become your master, but you can slip out from under it occasionally."

I feel for each of you as you report a terrible stretch and I hope each of you feel supported by me and us.  

Ian, I like your shoulda, oughtta, gotta reference. And the frog. 

Steph, that sign has such a pretty luster and greeting. 

I used to have terrible depressions and now I have very short ones very rarely that pop up when I do not expect them. It is like crawling out of hell. Thankfully, I have you friends for support

Comment by sk8eycat on January 3, 2015 at 10:20pm

Thanks, Patricia...I giggled, LOL'd, and snorted.

The horse on the sofa reminded me of the one time Mom and I went to visit her sister and two brothers who were sort of starting over in Winslow, AZ.  (I think I was 7 or 8 at the time,)

One night Uncle Dennis knocked on the door and hollered that he had a friend with him, and could he bring him in.  Aunt Phyllis said, "Sure!"  So Uncle D. walked his big black stallion into the living room. 

I wish someone had had a camera....  Shock, dismay, and hilarity.  I don't remember how they got Blackjack turned around and back outside, but it was a hoot!

Comment by Steph S. on January 3, 2015 at 9:05pm

Comment by sk8eycat on January 3, 2015 at 8:54pm

Ian, thanks for the pep talk.  I know that "should" and "ought" but don' wanna are symptoms of my own mind...I've inherited clinical depression and procrastination from both parents, and I should talk to my doctor about it.  IF she ever has the time. 

Love the frog...he looks kinda like little Kermit. (Or have you ever seen "Sesame Street," or "The Muppet Show"?)

Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 8:44pm

Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 8:43pm

Felaine, that "should" and its friend "ought" are two nasty pieces of work. Kick them in the balls every time they turn up. The only thing I force myself to do is phyisical exercise because I know it helps, at least for a while. You obviously have your way of soothing your darker moods. I presume you also care for your cats and enjoy their company, so things do get done. Good luck with the book-hunting and book-sorting projects.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 3, 2015 at 3:45pm

Ian, I can totally identify with what that article says.  I have spent most of the last 2 weeks in my room, reading.....and smoking.  Sometimes I come in here and check my e-mail, but I have not really been communicating with anyone.  Nor have I been cooking much of the food that Mike brought me.  (I did cook, and eat the chicken, wrapped in bacon, because I didn't want it to go bad.)  Anything more elaborate just seems like too much effort.

So I read a thick biography of Julius Caesar, and then I read a similarly-sized biography of the first 40 years of Robert A. Heinlein's life. (I need to search the net for for the 2nd volume...it's been published.)  And now I'm going through my paperback collection looking for things I can give away without regret.

But there's so much else I should be doing, and I just don't want to.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 12:16pm
Comment by k.h. ky on January 3, 2015 at 10:59am
Ian, the early part of winter has started to depress m . Short, dreary days. Long boring nights. No sunshine. It will be better in 60 days or less.
Comment by Ian Mason on January 3, 2015 at 9:49am

Thanks, dear friends. Dep and me are old adversaries and I know that I'll come up again. Your support and kind words help a lot.

 

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