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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Randall Smith on December 8, 2014 at 7:46am

Carl, wonderful listening to Mildred. My mother sang in jazz bands while at Indiana U. back in the late 30's and was influenced by Ms. Bailey. Thanks for the memories.

Comment by Plinius on December 8, 2014 at 5:20am

Hanging from the window to catch this pic. I think the pot of gold is in the next street.

Good music, Carl!

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 8, 2014 at 5:12am

I am sorry for your loss, Ian. Peace and comfort to your family. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 7, 2014 at 9:12pm

Catching up... I'm sorry to hear of your family's loss, Ian!

Comment by sk8eycat on December 7, 2014 at 7:33pm

re: the Marshmallow Test....that last little red-headed girl (who ate her single marshmallow right away) looks and act exactly as my sister did when she was that age....and older. 

Still does.  But every doctor and therapist I've told about her agrees with me; she has Asperger's.  (And I still have scars where she bit me when she was 5 or 6 years old.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2014 at 6:57pm

Some Sunday evening easy-listening sounds from a fantastic singer from days gone by.  I hope you enjoy......

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2014 at 10:57am

Randall, I've also seen video footage of the Marshmallow experiment.  Like Mindy said, it's interesting to watch the kids faces as they ponder what they should do. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2014 at 10:52am

Sorry to hear of your family's loss, Ian.

Comment by Randall Smith on December 7, 2014 at 7:40am

Sorry, Ian. Evidently it was the grandfather on your daughter's mother's side?

Speaking of books, I just finished The Marshmallow Test, which goes into detail about the evidence that kids postponing the gratification of eating one marshmallow immediately by waiting  for two of them later gives an indication of self control later in life, which leads to bigger and better things. It's really a "no duh" socialogy thing, but it's now substantiated. (There's much more to the book than that.)

Comment by Plinius on December 7, 2014 at 1:25am

I'm sorry for your loss, Ian.

 

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