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Hang With Friends

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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 4, 2014 at 10:11am

If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you. ~Oscar Wilde

Comment by Plinius on April 4, 2014 at 1:05am

Thanks Patricia. I don't want everyone to google my name and find me here - had a few surprises - so I changed to my old bookcross name.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 4, 2014 at 1:00am

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 9:57pm

Hi Patricia,

Where I live, no body will care if you are just an atheist and keep your mouth shut. But if you are an anti-theist/anti-religious (like me) and criticize religion, you will be in trouble for sure.

Our constitution protects all stupid religious beliefs and calls itself "secular".

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 11:22am

Thanks for the greetings sk8eycat! I'm getting more and more comfortable at this place. At first I was overwhelmed by the complexity of this place -- groups, chats, forums, walls, blogs. However, now I am much more comfortable getting my way around.

Thanks everyone, I'm in good company. :)

Comment by sk8eycat on April 3, 2014 at 11:11am

Welcome back  to deepthought42, and belated greetings to Arp.

This is a safe place for any kind of comments, rants, whatever you need to get off your chest, or just share with friends.  I've never seen any evidence that trolls or snoops/hackers have ever been able to tap into A/N, and we've all said some pretty personal things at one time or another. Not to mention slamming every type of True Believer.

Lately I have been withdrawing into myself here in Beautiful Downtown Burbank, and this is the only place I feel comfortable connecting with real live people with lively minds...instead of getting meaningless platitudes in return, I get sensible and warm comments and advice.

So, welcome, again...pull up a chair, or a giant beanbag, or whatever makes you most comfortable...picture a cozy fire of aromatic wood crackling in the fireplace, and maybe some popcorn (or chili) in a big bowl

DO visit the "FOOD" discussion(s)!

Anything that makes you feel at ease....

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 4:26am

Oh, and thanks to you too Patricia!

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 4:24am

Hey, it worked. Thanks Grinning Cat.

Okay, those of you who have seen my name, please refer to me as Arp henceforth. You may continue to use my original name in private messages and places which are not indexed by the search engine.

I just realized if I say something which the theists perceive as offensive and they find it through the search engine, I might be in trouble if they also happen to know me in the real world.

It will be slightly better if my profile doesn't give my identity right away.

Comment by Plinius on April 3, 2014 at 3:16am

Changed both, and it works. Thanks, Grinning Cat!

Comment by Plinius on April 3, 2014 at 3:11am

I tried that, but I don't see immediately if it worked.

 

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