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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on December 24, 2015 at 5:18pm

Sierra Nevada Snowpack at 500-Year Low

In 2015, researchers reported that snowpack in the Sierra Nevada Mountains of California was at its lowest ever recorded level. But the official record only went back about 80 years.

TROUET: “We’ve been working with tree-ring data from California and we realized that we can reconstruct that snowpack number back to the early 1500s.”

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 24, 2015 at 2:22pm

I've been marveling at the Phila green grass, until I just saw a Canadian news broadcast showing green grass in Ottawa now.

Comment by Randall Smith on December 23, 2015 at 7:30am

Daniel, I just read about your endoscopy results (cancer group), and that's great news! Really great news! Hope you're feeling good. Retirement is just around the corner!

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 22, 2015 at 6:32pm

Randy, I haven't sent cards for at least thirty years, probably more. My life was so hectic, trying to get the kids through puberty, keeping a roof over our heads and food on the table, I decided to cut out any and all stress-makers. Sending cards was one. We kept the big feasts and it was about that time that I blasted anything religious out of my life.  It was about the time I wrote "Toward a Theory of Family Violence: its Antecedents, Treatment, and Prevention" and "A Splendid Heresy: the Role of Religion in Maintaining and Perpetuating Family Violence". 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 22, 2015 at 6:17pm

Ian, your part of the world seems to have come out from under the Ice Age at about the time as ours. Any traces of earlier civilizations were mostly swept away with the ice and then the floods. 

Ancient girl’s skeleton changes scientist’s mind on human migration

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on December 22, 2015 at 3:29pm

Your area sounded like a great place to live, until you described the MRSA pig slurry spraying, Ian. <face palm> It's greener than chemical fertilizer, but what's the carbon footprint of passers by getting MRSA? Saturnalia sounds like more fun than other Winter season celebrations. Locally there's no official HumanLight event this year. I don't much miss it, excepting for the music. Humanists tend toward boring lecture-like "celebrations".

There's plenty of benefits to mental health living "in country", Randall. But I prefer easy access to world class medical facilities from the Philly suburbs.

Love the LOL, Plinius! Those big eyes say so much.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 22, 2015 at 1:36pm

I do NOT like pig muck. Between a third and a half of pigs in Denmark have MRSA and spraying slurry everywhere seems like a good way to spread it. The last time I had a hospital appointment for a prostate exam, the first two questions were: 1) have you been to any 3rd world countries? and 2) do you live or work on a farm? Both are considered high risk and involve special precautions.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on December 22, 2015 at 11:06am

Happy solstice, everyone!

Comment by Randall Smith on December 22, 2015 at 7:44am

There's a lot to be said of living "in the country" (as we say here), despite the pig manure odor. I wouldn't have it any other way.

Thanks for the solstice greetings. It's also my parent's 75th wedding anniversary--if they were still living. I miss them. 

One more thing. Every year, up to this one, I send out Christmas cards or emails, usually about two weeks before Christmas. Then people trickle back responses. This year I'm waiting to see if anyone does it to me first. So far, with 3 days to the 25th, I've heard from NOBODY! Perplexing.

Comment by Plinius on December 22, 2015 at 2:35am

Happy solstice to all of you!

I like your town very much, Ian! And pigs smell a lot better than cars!


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