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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Plinius on November 15, 2014 at 12:00am

I often tried to make or fix the things we needed ourselves, so I can knit and sew a bit, cover chairs anew, repair books, etc. The last thing I learned was knitting socks, but they wore quicker than I could knit, so I went back to buying good quality socks. This summer I knit a scarf with a meander pattern for partner.

That stingray is something to see! Too bad they didn't put that omg woman back into the water!

Comment by Plinius on November 14, 2014 at 1:16am

Thanks Joan, two lazy days and I'm all right again. The only problem is the stack of work...

November is quiet, grey, wet and mild, so far, temperatures about 12 °C - 50 °F. And I'm knitting a cowl for a cold day.

Friday morning - I'm off to the market: fish, cheese, fruit and veg. See you!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 13, 2014 at 10:14pm

Chris, I hope your migraines have subsided. Are you having the cold that we northern US experience? I haven't looked at the weather map for the world yet. Hope you can stay warm!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 13, 2014 at 8:23pm

An interesting man, Thomas Hood, who seemed to have seen and felt the misery of the working poor. For example 

The Song of the Shirt (1843)

  • With fingers weary and worn,
    With eyelids heavy and red,
    A woman sat, in unwomanly rags,
    Plying her needle and thread—
    Stitch! stitch! stitch!
    In poverty, hunger, and dirt,
    And still with a voice of dolorous pitch
    She sang the “Song of the Shirt.”
    • St. 1.
  • Sewing at once a double thread,
    A shroud as well as a shirt.
  • No blessed leisure for love or hope,
    But only time for grief.
  • My tears must stop, for every drop
    Hinders needle and thread.
  • Work! work! work!
    While the cock is crowing aloof!
    And work—work—work,
    Till the stars shine through the roof!
    • St. 2.
  • Oh, Men, with Sisters dear!
    Oh, Men, with Mothers and Wives!
    It is not linen you're wearing out,
    But human creatures' lives!
    • St. 4.
  • Oh, God! that bread should be so dear,
    And flesh and blood so cheap!
    • St. 5.
Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 13, 2014 at 5:01pm

The actual title is November, with an alternate title No! It was composed in London in 1844.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 13, 2014 at 4:53pm

OK Bertold, I will credit Thomas Hood. This is what I have written to post with your approval: 

No sun - no moon!

No morn - no noon -

No dawn - no dusk - no proper time of day.

No warmth, no cheerfulness, no healthful ease,

No comfortable feel in any member -

No shade, no shine, no butterflies, no bees,

No fruits, no flowers, no leaves, no birds! -

November!

~ A little something by Thomas Hood:

Thanks to Bertold Brautigan 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 13, 2014 at 4:04pm

@Joan - but be sure to credit Thomas Hood, the creator!

Comment by sk8eycat on November 13, 2014 at 3:31pm

Joan, we haven't really improved much since LBJ signed the Civil Rights Act in the '60s.  And most of the TP agitation is still about skin color....they have only added women's rights to their "enemies list."

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 13, 2014 at 3:20pm

@ Joan - sure, glad you liked it.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 13, 2014 at 3:16pm

Felaine, what a remarkable story. I hated driving the souther tier of the US because of all the signs, "Whites Only", "Blacks enter in back". Defacto slavery still existed and the whole nation suffers from it.  

 

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