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the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Hex5 on August 31, 2015 at 12:35pm
I presented a small book of facts. Her reply was how dar you question god. Tgen i tore apart the bible i tore apart noahs ark on every level which is a few pages by itself then the resurection then revelations i also tore apart genisis i did it in the most logical easy to comprehend way possible. Her responce why do you question the bible why cant you believe it. She asked that after i pointed out all the problems with the bible. Finaly i gave up im like your a lemur. I cannot help you because you are a lemur. Just quit trying to comvert me im an ape your a lemur im smarter than you are
Comment by Loren Miller on August 31, 2015 at 12:26pm

Hex, there are people like that all over the place.  In one memorable episode of The Atheist Experience, Matt Dillahunty spoke of a young teen who had emailed in, terrified of questioning his/her faith for fear of becoming a heretic.  These are people who value a hallucination over reality.

Ask your friend of facts are more important to her than faith, and if faith takes priority, ask her why she looks both ways before she crosses the street!

Comment by Hex5 on August 31, 2015 at 12:16pm
The person i hate arguing with the most in a way is myself im extremely bullheaded and i have a problem in that it is very hard for me to walk away from an argument. I just got done arguing with an idiot. It was like talking to a tree. Check this out i brought up many many subjects i had studied. Biology chemistry psychology ect ect the list goes on forever. Im like learning these things these subjects discreadited the idea of a god more and more. At this point im 96% sure there is no god and ig there is it is a deistic one. You know how they responded. This was a 15 year old girl. She said i droped out of school and i refuse to learn anything els because if i learn something it might jeprodise my faith in god.... Im like WTF! I did not know stupid existed on this level. Evolution ....i dident work for everyone
Comment by Plinius on August 31, 2015 at 11:20am

Congrats, Randall! Miraculous to me: I couldn't hit a barn!

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 31, 2015 at 6:54am

Hex5, maybe you had a good influence on him.  I enjoy reading experiences and reports from fellow atheists that can still stand to enter churches, talk with theists, and watch debates.  I can't stand to do those things anymore, so I rely on you that can to keep me up-to-date.

Randall, a hole-in-one must be a good feeling.  I've never played golf.  Just batted the ball around once at a tiny beginners course.  It didn't have any long drives.  I could enjoy the game if I had the money, and the time.  There's just so many things I like to do, some never get done.

I came across this picture some time ago, and had to ask "Why so many crosses?"  She must be well and thoroughly indoctrinated.  Perhaps also desperate.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 30, 2015 at 10:18pm

Interesting, Hex5.

Congrats, Randall.

Hope y'all had a good weekend.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 30, 2015 at 3:37pm

Hex5, I truly enjoy a conversation with a believer in supernatural powers if they ask questions without hate in their eyes and if they answer my questions without being defensive. Sharing "This is how I see my world" makes for interesting conversations. 

Randy, you deserve to brag or to describe your experiences. I enjoy your comments even if I am not a golfer or a walker. Your hole in one sounds impressive to me even as I have never tried such an accomplishment. 

Comment by Ian Mason on August 30, 2015 at 2:55pm

Nice, Hex. Not all believers are fanatics, fortunately.

Well done, Randall. It's good to feel that effort is rewarded. Pat on the back.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 30, 2015 at 2:44pm

Congrats, Randall - nice going!

Comment by Randall Smith on August 30, 2015 at 2:35pm

I rarely boast, or even talk, about my golfing expertise. But if I may, I'd like to say I had a hole-in-one last Friday (witnessed). Sadly, I never actually saw the ball go in the hole. We were facing the sun and "lost it". I thought it went over the green, looking there first. It was not a jump up and down moment. More of a "How about that!".  It's my fourth one, all coming during retirement. And, for the record, I have a 4 handicap, meaning I usually shoot between 70 and 75. My golf game has actually deteriated as I get older (I'm 72). And I have to use the senior tees (which shortens the yardage). I do not ride a cart. My pedometer averages 6 miles walking. Sorry if I'm boring you.


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